My Great Buds

THANK YOU

2011-10-14T00:18:00.002+08:00

Dear Abba Father,

Thank you for your love for me even before I was born as you know me through and through.

Thank you for given me, my earthly parents who love me and care for me always from birth.

Thank you for my mother in law who gave me my darling wife who love me very much.

Thank you for my darling who you know even before we met, we are going to be a great couple united in your presence.

Thank you for blessing me with my two angels; Rachel and Moses. I hope for more ;-). They are just so lovely as you have blessed them.

Thank you for blessing me with my brothers and sisters, my uncles and aunties, cousins whom have been my great friends sharing their care and love

Thank you for given me few special buddies whom you have specially pick for me to be with and they have been great buddies to me all these years.

Thank you for given me my legionaries brothers and sisters whom has been my guidance in my spiritual growth.

Thank you for giving me my colleagues, my customers, business associates, my work which it has given me money to care for my families and living costs.

Thank you for giving friends for my friendship and help me to understand and love my no so friendly friends.

Thank you for blessing my country in peace and harmony.

Thank you for giving me good health, prosperity, harmony, peace and freedom to choose my preference (most of the times) also my talents etc etc...

Lord, I thank you for everything you have given me and going to give me. I seek for your forgiveness on my tresspasses to you, others and also myself. I pray for your continuous love, hope, faith and grace in living a good spiritual life in your presence.

In Jesus's name and through the intercession of Mother Mary, I pray. Amen.

5.5.11

2011-06-11T18:31:00.002+08:00

This is a special day where I have reached South Peak, Mount Kinabalu...my best achievement so far in my 3rd Mt. Kinabalu expedition. I thank Almighty for blessing me with good weather on the morning of the climb and as so far my training has helped me in reaching to this point. Everything was so good although the day before I was soaked in the rain when ascending up to Laban Rata. My timing was also good with 5.5 hours from Timphohon to Laban Rata.

Nevertheless, descending was tired and painful on my knee not like the previous two rounds. This is probably due to over pressure from South Peak to Laban Rata which took me about 7 hours and then another 5 hours from Laban Rata to Timphohon in heavy rains.

It was a great journey and I will be back again to conquer the Low Peak !!

Gong Xi fa Cai...the Rabbit will hop in few days time...

2011-01-31T20:14:00.002+08:00

Time passes real fast and it is already the 28th of the twelve month of lunar year...in 2 days time, we will be celebrating the new year. In Chinese calendar, I am considered 41 years old guy already :-)

This year, we will also be celebrating 23rd reunion dinner for our SHS 88-90 Alumni on the 2nd day of the lunar chinese new year at Premier Hotel, starting at 6.30pm. It will be another great occasion as we are gathering a total of 70 of buddies and also a record of 17 teachers.

I will post up the event of the night in due course. Last but not least, I would like to wish all my friends, Gong Xi Fa Cai.

May we all have a wonderful celebration and bringing us all closer and peace to our family all year round.

Cheers..

Last Step To Sainthood...

2011-01-15T21:17:00.003+08:00

Thank you Jesus for blessing your beloved Pope John Paul II, as he will be beatified on 1st May 2011, standing among your holy men and women.

I pray that our beloved Pope will enroute to be among your Holy Saints in near future.

Amen.

Merry Christmas 2010

2010-12-25T19:41:00.002+08:00

Christmas ins't Christmas until you have it radiates in your heart. Open up your heart to our Lord Jesus, let it born into your spirit and radiates to the rest of the world. Have your heart beat as one with Him till the last beat and that is when we will all be together with Him rejoicing with the full legion of angels and people of God.

Merry Christmas, may all your dreams come true through the grace and mercy of baby Jesus today.

Celebration of Life

2010-10-15T07:18:00.002+08:00

This year's birthday was again lived away from home as I need to attend the Blue Ocean Strategic Thinking Seminar at Flamingo Hotel by the lake, Ampang, It was quiet and only one of my KL colleagues quietly wishes me and another overheard, also join to shake hands.

My kids and wife had celebrated my birthday 4 days earlier on 10-10-10. We had a great steamboat dinner. My kids specially made the birthday cards using my laptop. Their mum help them to perfect it. Hmm, it is great effort from them.

My office colleagues also gave me a surprise birthday wishing, 15 minutes before I rush for my flight to KL on 13th. It was a great thought of theirs which I appreciate very much.

Frankly, I want to be "special" especially when it comes to birthday as it is something that is bigger than any other celebration. I believe everyone will also feel the same. This is the day, we are born into the world, living among with others and a journey of life till the end.

Nowsaday, you have a social network like FB having the function to publish your birthdate making it easy for your friends to remember your big day and wishing for you. It is a great effort and good. Nevertheless for my preference, I would treasure a more personal approach rather been reminded as it shows that you are special and appreciated and closer. To all that I care more, I would give them sms wishes rather than FB. I would pray for them. As those I care most, I would meet them and sing birthday song and cut cakes.

A celebration of life - this year, I will be embarking a totally new approach before the big 40 comes in another 12 months. This is to prepare myself for bigger dream that I wish to accomplish. The spotlight would be on my family, my kids and my health. A transformation not only easy to write or comprehend but most importantly easier to implement.

So, do pray for my success. Cheers!!

River Disaster 2010

2010-10-09T10:42:00.002+08:00

Tonnes of logs and wood debris has conquered the mighty Rajang as what considered as environmental catastrophe which has never happen or experience. This is a sign of tired mother nature of the unscrupluous acts of our leaders and business people. Uncontrolled logging activities and greed has been named as the main reason for this situation. Authorities seems clueless of what is the real cause but keep vowing to find the truth and nail the culprit.

When this happen, I wonder why there is no action to try to prevent these debris from floating out to the open sea ? May be, we could mobilise team of savagers to clean up. If the local authority does not have the power, the state government would have, if not, then Federal Government could have done more concrete action. The debris will cause more damage to the ecology system further down the riverine and open seas beside posting danger to vessels and river operators.

It is very disturbing and indeed sad to experience such situation. However, I believe there is still hope if we could make those in authorities take full responsibilities and be open on the real action to preserve our Mother Nature.

Yes, we need development and no doubt logging of the timber is one of the steady sources of income for the government and people. If the danger limit has been breached, the activity should stop and prevent further deterioration. We had enough opportunities through timber logging and it has contributed much revenues to our state. Different controlled approach can be used if it is save.

Critically, we need to ensure proper plans to support in other sort of activities for income earning for rakyat. NKEAs & SCORE should come strongly to take over from timber logging activities as major income producer for the state.

It is NOW or NEVER !

I Took A Rest from FB

2010-10-02T22:05:00.003+08:00

The final countdown ended the night before which was 11.59pm, 30.9.2010 after I have put up in my FB. I was looking forward to the last lap, the final quarter of 2010 and how I could push myself to achieve another milestone in my 3rd quarter. The verdict ?

It is good. I am satisfied on how I performed under such cirscumtances though I did not meet my budget figure. The process was important for me as I was reflecting each day and make my thinking to reality. I was asking myself how can I be difference ? Yes, different in presenting myself and delivering my achievement. How could I help more people to be close to their dreams ? How could I protect their wills and dreams and at the same time carrying my own dreams. I must say, the process is still on going (taking a sip of La Rose Doree').

Oh yes, I took a rest a rest from FB since yesterday....just to have my thinking solely on how can I finish my 2010 the best that I could. You may say that it is a reflection time...on my life.

The greatest failure that I have this year so far...guess what ? is my plan of fitness (hihihihi...laughing myself)...may be consolation is that I still weight the same since 1/1/2010...at least not too bad. I had my 'scare' two months back and I know I am reaching to my dragon year soon...and in reality I need total transformation....(Yes, I will !!...thinking if not Mt KK will be in next life...shoooosh...nope, it will be in 2011, yes. I will..)

Yes, today I had a 1 km brisk walking and it took me 15 minutes. I will do it everyday (I promised!) Let's see, how I fare in 10 days time...20 days, 1 month and 3 months...(taking another gulp...bottom up on La Rose Doree')

See me at the top !!!

Mid Autumm Festival

2010-09-23T10:56:00.002+08:00

Yesterday, was the height of the celebration. I had a gathering with my brother and the family. A simple dinner but with great meaning. This is one of the many celebrations which gather family members after few months working hard in our own pursuits in life.

I have half piece of moon cake, my first taste of the pandan yoke moon cake. The taste is so-so and I still prefer the red bean with yolk.

After dinner, my kids have a wonderful time with their cousins playing the lantern and walking around the house for which I do not do that during my younger times. I guess those days, it was not a practice. We had lantern but we do not paraded it around our house. Nowadays, you have modern lantern with battery powered bulbs and music. These lanterns are quite pricey.

I was quite tired last night and was just sitting lazying myself on the sofa watching "ninja turtles cartoon series" whilst waiting for my kids to complete enjoying themself. I guess the heat of the day also caused me to be lazy after been working the whole day. It was indeed a hot day and I was sweating a lot and have not had my bath as I was rushing for the gathering at 7pm. We finally reached home at 9.15pm...

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Wondering sms greeting also very much less...I have only received 1 sms ! Few through FBs and emails. Why le hor ?

Life Transformation

2010-08-20T19:52:00.002+08:00

People said, life at 40 is a cross road. A big decision to be made. I am now coming to 39 and yet to reach 40 but I have been feeling the need to transform to another level or another mode. Am I the only person feeling at such ?

I was having lunch with a buddy this afternoon and we talked about life and how we could live a more satisfied life and towards the future. Is not that we are not having a great time at life now but we are looking at how we could be even better or securing the future. We sense that if we stop our work now...everything would just slow down and we will not be secured. I brought up few examples of other friends or acquantaince who I know are doing very solid future building expecially in their financial independence.

I have invested in few areas like properties, lands, stocks and unit trusts. I have tried to make my rested money to work extra for me. The return is steady but not very much. It is a long term accumulation but I am looking as faster return whilst I am still strong physically and mentally.

It is always refreshing to know that we could do more and there is a lot of opportunities to try on. I like ideas but have too much concern to try :-(

Someone asked me very recently, how do you like it when you can earn RM50,000 a month ? (my CEO may just only earn half of it and the worry or responsibilities that he had is triple) Why would you still want to work for your employer ? full of stress and spend the whole time for others and not your family or loved ones...

Pondering back of six years ago, John shared with me his dream and I join into his dream by signing up the challenge. Now after 6 years, the dream that we had, I knew he has achieved a milestone but I have not had a yard...(although I grew in size and also my stature in my corporate life. My corporate responsibility tie me deeper and deeper into the ring, making me more difficult to release myself without hurting both sides). The conclusion is I have not make my final decision !!!

I need to transform and I need this new life to secure the future of my family..

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World Cup 2010 Fever Vs Fixing

2010-07-08T06:44:00.003+08:00

Now the final is between Holland & Spain. Who could dream this to happen ? I am not a football lover but I have only watched world cup football as they seems to be more interesting. I believe it is because of the way it was video, the emotion etc. But now all my favourite teams already gone....should I watch it ?

I was told by a friend yesterday that 50% of the games are fixed. I said how could that be ? Will the players or official just could not care anymore about integrity, dignity and solidarity to their country ? (when I think about certain people in my circle, I think nothing is not possible especially when the person is devilish). This friend affirmed that he was saved 3 times by a close bookie friend of advising him just seconds before the booking closed. He further explained that if the bookie receive more betting on certain team, then they will arrange and entice a good return to the supposedly strong team.

Then, I recalled the few matches; England-Germany, Brazil-Holland....could it be ?

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I believe integrity and professionalism is success. We may have shortcoming in short run as others may be better. We must keep resilience with sincerity, we will reach and achieve our dream. God bless.

Mt Kinabalu 2010

2010-05-19T22:02:00.005+08:00

Bearing the scare of the first trip in 2009 using Mesilau trail where it took me 9.5 hours to reach Pendant Hut, this time round, we are more prepared by starting the climb early at 8.30a.m. It took me 7 hours and 50 minutes and I had expected to be even shorter time if not because of rains started when we reach KM4 @ 12noon. It was an exciting climb together with my buddies. True display of friendship happens between KM4 to KM6 especially when three of us climbing through the rains and when Andrew cramped both legs, it was agony to see his through the final 2KM to Laban Rata. It was very wet and cold. Lucky thing is the wind is not blowing as strong as the last round. Slowly we climb and climb, and with the spirit of togetherness, we managed to reach Laban Rata and it was such a good feeling achieving it together.

This round, Heroes is smarter and definitely looks fitter as he climbed with no problems. He could have finish the climb much earlier but he had preferred to stay together with the two biggest climbers of the day. I was behind and the last of all among 10 in the team. I nearly gave up in the first 2km when everone was fast furious up the trail. I was gasping for air and my mind was wondering whether I should quit and wait for them at the park but somehow...my legs continue to climb me up and slowly I past through KM2, then KM3. I think the first part of climb is the most difficult for our body to adjust the rythm but once the engine is smooth....we will be able to carry through and of course always need to climb at your phase. I slow down and kept reminding myself to walk at my own phase...sometime zig zag like the way how the ranger/packer did as I watched them make their stead ymoves. They just did it slowly and steadily but will full consistency.

In fact reaching Laban Rata is a great deal of achievement and I am satisfied. I was totally flat and overcame with emotion as I reflected on why doing such a feat with my condition. I think most people with my condition would not want to risk themselves for such agony challenges and anytime will face with the worst outcome. Then, again, it is the satisfaction of pushing to the limit that console me.

On the ascend to the peak, I have witnessed many pairs of friends, couples of young and old encouraging each other when climbing up. They surely conquer the mountain the right way whereas it may seem that our group was doing not the same as we were splitted away. I strongly believe if we have a strong few buddies doing every step together that morning, it is very chance that we all are going to conquer it. However, one also must have strong determination too and for me, I was not feeling well...feeling the stress at the neck probably my BP was pressing me downward that time.....then it started to poision my mind of stopping there not risk further and ... so, I decided to stop at 200 metres away after climbing.

This trip, I am proud that 7 of my group members reached the top. They are real good climber and I admire their focus and determination. Bravo !!!
1) Captain Jimmy (this king kong memang kuat, carried 12 kg up and no problem...if I can have his 50% turbo power, haiz)
2) Captain Sii How Hui (this guy is damm strong..first to reach the top among the 7)
3) Paul Ting (small chilly but strong heart and determination...to stamp his determination, he is actually having heavy flu during the climb)
4) Dr. Martin Wong (dun play play with this guy...he is unbelievable though looks is indeed deceiving)
5) Michael U Guan (slightly smaller size than me, but hey....very strong determination, I admire...may be the old scout spirit helps)
6) Kelvin Kong Shon Shu (hmmm...never train but climb like monkey...)
7) Louis Wong (most modern climber..have all the climbing kits...strong athletic body...)

Heroes was only just by few hundreds metres to the top of the mountain. This is a contrast achievement !!! I am sure next year, he will conquer the mountain!

When coming down the mountain, the logical senses just keep returning to me and I could not believe that the trail is so difficult and how on earth, I have climbed the first part the day before. However, this does not kill my determination to try the 3rd attempt. I hope when I am up there on the top of the mountain, standing by myself are all my true friends as I believe I will not be able to make this happen all alone but only together as a team. See you at the top !!

Another Mountain Challenge in 16 days

2010-04-11T18:58:00.002+08:00

The heart is pounding quickier as D-day draws near. On 27th April, I will be with 8 others starting our journey to the foot of mount Kinabalu. Exciting as ever, I really need to prepare well for this second time ascend. This time, I will be staying overnight at the foot of the mountain preparing my thought well before early morning rise up to the mountain @ 6.30am. I have aimed to reach there by 1.30pm latest, which 2.5 hours quickier than last year (smile on my face).

I will have nice resting time till the next morning where we will start from Laban Rata at 2a.m. The trail to summit, I do not know how long I will take as the last round, I stop few tens meter after the first rope climbing when the rains starts pouring down. I guess, I will take 5 hours to reach the summit.

One of the important factors is not to have rain ! Please....tiredness and suffering, I will strive to endure not matter what...but facing the nature's waters, it is just too much for me to take with strong wind blowing and the wet dangerous path to climb through...

Well, I will leave this to the Almighty whilst I care for my mental and physical.

See me at the TOP ! ok!

You Are My Best Friend

2010-02-27T17:23:00.002+08:00

You Are My Best Friend© Francia Diego

You are my best friend through thick and thin. When You reach for my hand you touch my heart. You are The bestest friend that I can have.

You are there for me when I need you the most. You Cheer me up when I am down. If I am about to cry u Make me smile. You are my best friend and I can Not lie.

You listen to me and give me advice, advice that comes Straight from the bottom of your precious heart. You are My best friend in the whole wide world and I couldn't ask God for a little bit more.

We are going to grow older, and things will change but our Friendship will forever still remain. I'll make new friends but That won't change because you will always be my best friend.
I'd like to mean as much to you as you mean to me. I'd like to Be some help to you as you have been to me. I'd like to know That as we grow old our lives will change but that our
Friendship will still remain.

Me and you will never be apart maybe in distance but never in Heart for our friendship is way to strong to let it go off just like That.

All I can say is that you are my best friend and I swear to God That I don't want it to change. I may move to a different state but That doesn't mean that our friendship will end, because you will Always be my best friend. No matter what life has destined for us I know that our friendship will never die.

Another 629 days to go...

2010-01-22T07:00:00.004+08:00

I have set this target two years back and time really does not care about whether you are doing it, focus or just do not care about it, it continues to tickle away...

So what is the status of my progress ? To say there is no progress is bluffing but to affirm that I am on the right phase is also not convincing. Whatever it is, by penning this into my blog today suffices to remind myself of the commitment that I have made 2 years back.

I will review my strategies and my focus point to ensure I will have the right momentum and progress that I aim when the days is down to zero !

A lot of patience is needed, a lot of sacrifices is needed and a lot of initiatives must be provided...not a lot, it is crazy lot...

I must cast out temptations, I must rub off distractions either things or even people or negative friends....but most of my other self...

The greatest challenger to my success is "myself". Therefore, I need to sacrifice myself to achieve my self victory. One for sure, I must keep peace with my soul, live the life of prayer as without the blessing of the Lord, what I attain is of devil's influence.

Just DO IT

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The past one week has been very tiring for me emotionally coupled with the passing my only "ah chek". Today is his 7th day (according to Chinese custom) although English calculation is on tomorrow. Life is beautiful and God has given us everyday 24 hours the same to everyone, not a second more or less...it is how we are going to spend this 24 hours. My uncle has spent his life meaningful, humble and always helpful to one who is in need. He is not rich of property but he is rich in spirit. A teacher by profession and also a basketball coach.

Every year, I would be able to share my new year joy with him ("poon ni" in Hokkien) but now no longer...I remember his wide smile, the happiness in him when I delivered my goodies and he will immediately return in exchange. Although some may say it is waste of time as "sang lai sang ghima si siang" (giving to each other, the net effect of item is the same), but the real meaning of giving is not in the item itself, it is in the spirit of togetherness, the love and kindred relatipnship that we shared and valued.

Appreciate what we have...we will never know when it will last...

Eternal rest grant upon my uncle Andrew, O Lord. May Perpetual Light shines upon him. May he rest in peace...

88-90 SHS Class Reunion 2010

2010-01-17T12:52:00.004+08:00

When is it ? I have no clue....traditionally...it is on the 2nd day of Chinese New Year which will be 15th Feb 2010 (Monday).

But I have received a call from a friend...just checking whether someone could contact the organising chairman "Wong Kieng Thai" to do it?

However, I am not going back this CNY as my parents will be celebrating in Kuching but I told him, I will try to contact him (feeling funny).

There a few going back...Anthony, Mr. Tee, Thadeus, Stephen Chung...I guess if concerted effort is put in, there will still be a roaring reunion although it is quite a late move...

I will check with the OC soon to check it out...

2010-01-01T08:57:00.003+08:00

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2010

"May all the visitors of my blog who read this message received triple blessings for this new year. Always appreciate what you have now and you have indeed able to read the message on this page, you are truly blessed. Many others do not have such opportunities.

May your days always be blessed with the joy of life and colours of rainbow.

And may you always stay in healthy and blessed living ways sharing the love of Our Creator with the less fortunate or needy beside our Loved Ones"

Merry Christmas 2009 !

2009-12-25T00:45:00.000+08:00

Jingling Is In The Air...

2009-12-20T12:11:00.002+08:00

Time & Tide waits for no One...it was again mentioned to me when I was observing the beach line at Damai Puri the night before....It was cooling with wind blowing and the waves was pounding stronger at this time of the season. It is just another 6 days to Christmas (the final Sunday before Christmas), wow...as soon as the last Christmas was still very fresh in my mind...when I had the Christmas gathering with my school mates at Kenny Rogers, at The sPring, Kuching.

Time really flown away real fast...and in another 11 days, we will counting down to branf new year, 2010...and then many of my childhood friends will be having big "40" !... (mine still have a year to go..yay yay!) Well, that is not important of course. The most important is that we must appreciate every 24 hours that God has blessed us when our eyes first open after the long night sleep.

How to appreciate ? We must spend and utilise the every moment good intention in favour of Him. Not any moment is spent on useless thoughts, things or anything that displeases our Creator. For non believer, just keep it simple by spending your time righteously in favour of goodness.

It has been a busy month on my job not counting on my family events. Instead of jingling...I have been doing my best to juggle both my official and personal events. It has not impressive enough as I missed out few important events not due to official requirement but the after effect as I felt tired, so I chose "destressing acts". The devil of this could be due to my own inactive exercise and overload body (people called it...FAT). So, I must cast this execerise discipline in stone in order to cast this devil out of my life ! Yes, I will !

.....need to stop now as another personal event is requiring of me now...CHAO !

Annual Leave

2009-11-23T16:07:00.003+08:00

In my employement guide, I have a total of 23 days of annual leave per year. I have been finding difficulty to clear the leave and as usual for the past 14 years, I have carried forward 10 days to following year. I remembered burning 20+ days some 10 years back because of an adjustment to the employement reference as I could not clear my leave in time before a new ruling takes effect.

Even on leave, if I am not going overseas or away to another place, I am being constantly disturbed in enjoying my own quiet moments to relax my mind from work. I do not think this is healthy and fair for myself, my loved ones or my true friends.

I do envy my colleagues who could just go for 10 days or two weeks break without being disturbed.

What has been the real reason for me for not being able to clear this leave entitlement ? I have been asking myself....my heart knows the reason but my brain keeps it secret. Thus my body continue to allow this unhealthy practices to continue.

I must work on a system to clear this "backlog" and next year, I will not repeat such a mistake anymore. I will put this is my personal KRAs.

Malaysian Budget 2010 : What is there for me ?

2009-10-25T18:43:00.004+08:00

Every year this time round, our PM will announce the budget for 2010 and everyone is expecting goodies to be splashed out....but this time round, there may still some goodies for us as follow;

a) Personal tax top bracket will be reduced by 1% from 27% to 26%....(though I have not reached the top bracket as yet but this will spur more actions to reach to the top !)
b) Increased of personal relief (yes, I need that to gain more savings)

c) Increased on insurance relief (yes, then can buy more protection especially critical illness programme)
d) Tax deduction for broadband services up to RM500 for the period 2010-2012 (aha...good for my streamyx and maxis).

Anymore huh ? I have not seen the full fledge of the budget report...actually every year, I also do not take real time to read the full report except going through the main features. This time round, I must get the full report for good learning.

As for the negatives news from the budget for individual;

1) I have just learned that many friends had decided the main two credit cards to be retained and had cancelled those extras. This is an important consideration move as effective Jan 2010, every card will be charged RM50 (except supplementary at RM25 per card). I can imagine the huge revenue that could be generated for government i.e 1,000,000 people x 2 cards x 50 = RM100,000,000.

I have to decide which are my main two cards soon...but let's see what is the response from the bankers ?

2) Property gain tax - 5%. Luckily I sold my house last year after 6 months on sales when the government abolish the tax two years back. Though, I did not have actual gain when I add my renovation into the total sale value but in the official records, my buying price is definitely lower than the selling price. So, guess need to add in this 5% extra if we want to sale our property.

More to come ??

MGB celebrates Birthday...

2009-10-15T13:02:00.010+08:00

I had wanted to blog my appreciation yesterday to mark more meaningful reflection but my IE6 was having problem since the last time the IE8 programme gave way, I have not reloaded the new Ie8....

The past one week has been very meaningful as my family and friends were cheering and wishing me many happy return on this beautiful occasion although my mind was very hook up to my review meeting presentation and business challenges ahead.

My branch colleagues has been wonderful bunch of people managed to pull another trick to celebrate with me last Friday as they know that I will on week long travelling to outstations. Their blessings walk way back to the first time when we were together (although not all of them as many are new faces) in 1997. Each year, they will sing and we will exchange our wishes during our birthday, a simple act but full of meaning as we meant what we wish.

Then, on Saturday, my family (inclusive my 3rd brother and his army) came to my home to celebrate with me. My darling wife has been so wonderful preparing the whole day on the food and taking care of my kids whilst I was in office on Saturday to conduct meetings till late 3pm as also to prepare my last lap performance.

On the eve of my birthday, I am "touch" with shocking celebration arranged by my CEO/CBO together with all the senior management (50 plus people) inclusive of my company directors singing their wishes to me. It is indeed a fantastic moment...

This celebration continues with my CBO and few friends who have waited for the clock to reach 12 midnight, to sing another round of wishes...they are just been so wonderful pals...

Thank you for all the blessings I have received from your wishes and I thank all of you for your friendship and love as I wish for you on my birthday, to receive good health, prosperity and divine blessing in every moment of your life....

It's Hari Raya Celebration again...

2009-09-19T05:36:00.003+08:00

First of all, Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri to all my Muslim friends of all races and Selamat Bercuti to all my friends who are on holidays during this festival season.

Time really flies...it another year gone if we use the last Raya as benchmark. Soon, it will be Christmas coming...then...2010 countdown... I am not kidding here and guess what, I have just received invitation from my social club to confirm on the limited place for the 2010 New Year Countdown !

For my corporate life, we are already counting our last lap and how to ensure we push the last drop of our energy to survive in the race.

Time is really precious. It never stops and never waits. The best remedy of time is it heals, at least I rated so...so we must not just let it ticks away without getting all its 'catering" for you...

In Malaysia, we have four days of holiday including the weekend. A good time to go for short trip and do anything you want, be insane to your work for a moment...(not breaking any laws of course) so that we could reorganise ourself when we starts back in the office or the real world on Wednesday.

I have planned out my holidays...just want to relax...have good food, plenty of it with my family and then exercise a lot so that can eat more...I will also drive out to Semenggoh bringing my kids to see Mr. Tee & Heroes' cousins who are being rehabilitated.

Oh yes...visiting my Muslims friends is a must during this Raya....so good food and company will be there...and my kids just love it!

Dreaming To Success

2009-08-20T20:27:00.003+08:00

I "dream" to success everyday as;

a) I have my own time...doing what I want with my loved ones...not tie down with regiment timing...
b) I have the financial and physical means to bring family, my siblings & family for holiday every quarterly...especially my parents to AhMuo, China (my ancestry rooting), Beijing, Rome, Jerusalem....)
c) I am able to help those in need whether in financial, time or energy...

and do not need to worry about monetary liabilities...although life challenges I need them to be stronger in facing the colourful life.

In multi-level marketing, this is the promise and idea selling to all the under achievers or achievers. Everyone is attracted to shorten their journey to success and I am not excluded. I want to be successful since 15 years back...

After working for 14 years ++ (in 10 days time, it will be my complete full cycle of 14 years in insurance line), I have tasted success but yet to fully grap and graduated from it...but to some, yes...I am happy for the achievement and I hope to complete my dream in shortest time before the big figure as tickling away in the clock placed on this blog..:-)

It is not a day dreaming...but a dream to achieve as I written down and reflect it almost all the time. Questions been raised, obstacles being overcame and mounting challenges continue to whack my course to success. A lot of support is indeed needed from my wife, family and buddies also friends out there...I thank them for the love and joy of seeing the help sent to me. For all those who are not aware how appreciate I am to them, I pray for their success too.

It is nearer than 14 years ago...but the road is steeper as i could comprehend with my personal experiences when climbing the Mount Kinabalu. To reach the top (for which I have not short of 1km), it requires much more than just dreaming...

But importantly, I must not give up !...I must keep trying...and everyday i know I am nearer to the point of success that I wish...wish me, pray for me my friends, I need your support in your laughters, joys, tips, clarity, sincerity, point blank on my weaknesses to improve and opportunity to help you as to help myself...

See you at the top !

The Best Beef Noodles In Singapore

2009-08-04T13:00:00.006+08:00

It is in Ang Mo Kio, as my brother in law (in yellow shirt, 2nd last) brought us there for the best beef noodles in town. As witnessed, the long que is never ending as customers waited for their turn to order (as they que orderly...but not at our local here, further not self service le).

Why it is the best as proclaimed ?! It is voted by Singaporeans and for many years, they have reigned undisputed champion ! (I wonder this idea can be passed to Dato WSK for Sibu's tourism, if we could also highlight and award the best Kampua Mee !)

Okay, let's see the photos taken....

a) Curry beef noodles...

It is delicious...man, as I typed my words...my salivas keep flushing out...huh !

b) Kuaytiaw beef...I like the curry better...

So, guys/gals...make sure you ask for this best beef noodles if you are in Singapore...go early before you wipe your eyes with tissues.

A Bless Friday

2009-07-17T23:28:00.002+08:00

I felt specially bless today, as I have managed to present my case.
I felt specially bless today, as I learnt new things from my colleagues especially the financial "C"
I felt specially bless today, as my Executive Director treated me starbucks
I felt specially bless today, as I have my stomach filled up with good nutrituous food
I felt specially bless today, as I have reached home safely and had a nice hot bath...
I felt specially bless today, as I could blog my blessings today and share with all of you....

There are so many blessings given to me everyday and I want to remind myself of not being blinded by few small or big problems irritating the pleasure as it could be still a blessing in disguise...plus channelling this blessings to everyone I mingle, communicate, socialise and do...as by practising this mode, I will make myself the channel of blessings, an instrument of LOVE for Almighty God the Father.

Thank you for blessing me and loving me plus all the readers of my Blog...

Ocean Park in Three Hours

2009-07-08T22:17:00.007+08:00

It was a fast track as we completed our tour of Ocean Park in 3 hours with of course Panda watching and Dolphin show - the main two attractions in the park. However, we did not manage to play any of the games.

The photo is showing the entrance to the world's longest escalator!

A roller coaster at the side of the hill.

One of the Panda, just awaken for while from afternoon nap. The other one deep in her sleep.

Oh, yes at the Panda Sanctuary, there is a show of many type of gold fish with showing of its origins. The following are two of my favourites.

During my teen I like to rear gold fish. O liong, Tut Bah, Sai Tau, Sai Kong blah blah...all are shown there. I have taken all the photos of them but would not be albe to share with all of you here...may be I could just upload to FB photo album, there you could also enjoy of god's creation.

Tourism Year

2009-07-01T23:46:00.002+08:00

This year may just be the tourism year for MGB & family. :-)

However with the H1N1 scare and is deteriorating during this time of the year, it seems that the sales of air tickets is getting hottier...probably the players are expecting the sliding of demand of air travels due to the worry of the flu. This "pressure" sales is giving higher temptation for us to look and plan ahead of our next outing.

Hey, before dreaming on the next trip, I would like to share with all my recent trip to Macau, Hong Kong, and Shenzen from 4th June to 8th June in celebrating my 10th anniversary with my one and only darling with whom i have two wonderful "cahaya mata". Well, we may categorise as the 3rd overseas trip (exclude Singapore/WM) together since the last two to Australia Gold Coast and Sydney/Brisbane back in 1999 and 2005 respectively.

It is a wonderful trip together, exploring the oriental cities, the pearl of the east and the one that we have been watching all these while in our life. It is like to refreshment moment as it is like the backyard of our mind as many of the key places have been shown in most of the Hong Kong moviews/serials. I did not do much talking as I only speak a little Cantonese so I let my girlfriend did the talking as she is quite fluent in it. I like to hear the hongkies Cantonese as their sland is like music. I am quite impressed with the conversation among them as they could communicate in high understanding of each other as I observed from the people on the street. They will normally give a quite assuring response as compared to our own locals in our place.

On the first day (evening), we have been to the Ladies' Street, a bigger version of Petaling Street. You must bargain smartly for a good price but then if you are going to Shenzen, then better focus your money in Shenzen. There is also a Men's Street (red lights street), but did not make to the street...:-(

It was a free and easy for the first day (evening as we only reached HK at about 3pm).

The next morning, we had follow a small tour group (all Malaysian). After the dimsum breakfast, we went through the Stars Valley to enjoy the scenery of the Hong Kong's skyscrapers as per above photo, Hong Kong Island's public beach passing by Jackie Chan's mansion and also others. We are also supposed to visit the Madam Tussaud's musuem but we did not manage to go as we do not have the time... :-( i miss the statue of Andy Lau, Michael Jackson.. sobs...

A visit to a jewellery and herbal shops is a must as this is where the tour agency/guides earn their extra tips. We had visited Jackie Chan's jewellery shop (how true...I dun know).

After lunch, we went to Ocean Park but did not play any of the games though we have watched the dolphin show...as we were busy taking pictures of great scenery. Actually, we should spend a day there to relax and experience like what we have gone through in the Dream World in Gold Coast...By 5.30pm, we have to catch our train to Shenzen as our dinner at Shenzen is scheduled at 8pm. Zoom...we go !

Hey, though we had only spent 2 days and a night in HK, it is definite a sweet experience. We have planned to go back sometime this year bringing our RM (Rachel and Moses) to visit the DisneyLand, definitely spend a day there and also another day in Ocean Park.

to be continued...

Safety First, Not Convenience

2009-06-15T21:02:00.005+08:00

I must share with you this important lesson but often being ignored due to convenience.

My wife's car was broken into last Thursday night when she parked at Jalan Song. Before going for her dinner (alone as I was on travelling to Sibu), she had transfered her office bag to her car booth (Waja), then she locked up and armed the car's alarm. Within 10 minutes as far she could recall, she return to her car and shocked to find out that the right rear car window was smashed and the back seat was unbuckled and her office bag was missing. She was in total shock and called me to inform. A few important documents and office keys were in the bag. In our mind then, we were very unhappy to face such bad situation. However, a police report were need to be made to report the lost in view of the important document. I quickly called Heroes to help out as he has experience (he had also met with similar incident a month ago...his losses was heavier (thanks buddy) :-)...

The agony of losing or suffering from the breakage was not enough as along her way to police station, she was stopped for two offences. Guess what ?

OML, she was first caught not switching on the head light and second, she was on the phone with me. It was really a bad day (as I listened to the conversation of her with the police, it was heartache indeed but I could not do anything but listen...). But thank God, the police only summoned her on the headlight but not the handphone incident as the police was aware that the car was broken into a few minutes earlier and she was still in shocking condition (thanks for the understanding).

At the police station, it was revealed that there were few cases of breakins and robberies on the same day. Ours is considered minor. We felt that we are lucky to have suffered this minor loss and we could have avoided the loss if we have been more alert and responsible.

This incident is purely due to convenience...lessons learnt are as follow;

a) If we wish to put our bags/belongings into the car booth, do it before our journey to destination (best is do not put in the car booth) as if we do it at the destination, we do not know who are watching us from the vicinity.
b) Use handfree :-) no matter how short or how important is the call..

Mount Kinabalu 2nd Expedition

2009-06-09T13:57:00.003+08:00

I am pleased to present you a photo edited by Mr. Tee showing the view of the mighty mountain from Laban Rata.

After slightly more than a month coming down from Mount Kinabalu, the urge of conquering the top has never faded and in fact I have been enquiring for the earliest expedition again to conquer this mountain. I have received request from few friends (not BMs) to organise the trip soonest possible such as in Nov 2009 and of course many had written down in their diary for the May/June 2010 challenge.

What is important here is the fitness and mental level, especially for myself. Of course there is always an exception like our living example of BM5, who is not fit (no training) but has the super mental to back him to the top. So, I would only referring this to my current condition and to achieve this feat, I must conquer my following challenges first;

a) Twice weekly 5km run/10km walk, increasingly to 15km walk
b) Weekly mountain climbing activities, increasing to conquer Mount Santubong before D-day
c) Twice weekly 1 hourly squashing
d) Weekly weight training
e) Learning rope/rock climbing

Above all, I must have my weight reduced by 25% (naturally diet observance and alll the above exercise regime, I will definitely achieve that...:) ).

The greatest challenge is the discipline to start and maintaining this programme. I believe I will end victorious.

(Those who are determined (not only interested but determined) to participate in the next expedition to Mount Kinabalu - please register your name in this reply column...)

Mount Kinabalu 1

2009-05-07T08:50:00.006+08:00

So near yet so far....I was at 3,668m against the peak of 4,052m but by distance, it is probably about 1.5km away. It was raining and coupled with strong winds at 4.30 a.m, it is unbearable to move up. My whole suits (from head to toe) was wet (it is freezing but thanks to my extra fats...I can still hold on to climb down) and by the time I reached the last wall (with rope), I practically stop myself from ascending further as I was never prepared to climb the rope (although I had climbed two other wall rope minutes earlier but it was not only about 40 degrees steepness, and this one is probably about 60-70 degrees).

Where to start, there are so many good memories along the way from Day 1. The first day, it took me 9 hours and 18 minutes to reach Pendant Hut (about 80m above Laban Rata) from Mesilau Point. The length of the journey is about 8.3km. Frankly the first 4 km was peanut but as it comes to KM5, I started to feel the tiredness and coldness without my jacket, little drinks and foods. The wind was very strong and we (both Heroes and myself) had to chase our porter for the jackets and extra supplies. We managed to call Ah Too to look for our porter who was about 500 metres ahead of us (500 metres...means we are about 45 minutes in part based on our phase of walking...haiz). Though we have our jacket but we did not take out our head light and extra supplies from the bag as we never thought that we will need to walk for another 4 more hours as we are expecting ourself to reach Laban Rata latest 7pm (so we happily walked ourself up and still got the time to take photos on the scenery...and letting the porter up on his way).

We reached the junction between Timpohon route and Mesilau route at about 5.30 plus pm. I have asked the guide (do not know many times), how near are we to Laban Rata ? He said, it is quite near...another 2.3km (my heart is very sour and tired) and urge us to move quickly to beat the darkness ahead, so we obediently follow through. Along the route, we also met many couples and they were interwined in our journey. Thanks to them, we also use their muscle pain lotion as if not, we could not ever reach to Pendant Hut. They are loving couples helping each other up the Mountain. At 6pm, we overheard one of the couple calling their friends to pack dinner for them as the restaurant closed at 7pm. Thus, I have asked heroes to call Chuan yew to pack for us (this proof to be vital as none of our members did that as I discovered from Paul yesterday...what a relief...). At 5km using Timpohon scale@7.28pm (if Mesilau, we have reached 7km), our supplies had run dry and the darkness had enclosed us. I sms to Ah Too/Paul/Chuan Yew to ask for the head lights/food/medicine (as Heroes complained that he has fever).

At 7.45pm, we received head light from the guide but no food or medicine. Again, I sms to Paul sending stronger message to him telling him that Heroes is very sick. We were at 7.5km, the last pondok before Laban Rata. We waited for about 15 minutes and we decided to move a bit as to shorten the time whilst waiting for help (It is very cold with strong wind blowing...I think the temperature has dropped to below 14 degress Celcius).

Chuan Yew met us at about 7.8km with foods and medicine. What a great relief...(time is 8.00pm) (I must mention here that this Chuan Yew is super fit for this adventure....he had actually reached Pendant Hut at 4 something pm, having rest, trying to get shower and had dinner. he had volunteered to come down to bring supplies to us the moment Paul told him about our needs at around 7.45pm)

It is only about 600m to the Pendant Hut but it took us more than an hour to reach the destination. It is really a painful effort and I could not have completed this journey without the constant motivation from Chuan Yew along the way as he guided me.

At 9.18pm, I reached Pendant Hut ! (I am totally flat !) after 9hours and 18 minutes journey from Mesilau Gate.

To be continued......

Next week This moment...

2009-04-24T19:30:00.003+08:00

Seven of us, the Magnificent brothers will be resting at Laban Rata whilst hearing out the first and last briefing to scale the peak of Mount Kinabalu at 2.30a.m the next day.....

How is our preparation at this moment....
BM1 ....now resting at home...I think 70% fitness...
BM2 ....now having dinner with family...fitness at 80%
BM3 ....dun know what he is doing now...but fitness at 95% (he had conquered the summit last year...so he is the most experience of all)
BM4...dun know also...but judging from his squashing...he is probably at 80%
BM5...I really do not know...guess he is at 70%
BM7....hmmm this guy is yo-yo...but I put him at 80% as he is strong mentally.

Last but not least, myself....I am trying to peak at 100% by 30th, that is only few days to go...now...probably at 60%. Being the heaviest of all, I am at a disadvantage as need to carry more weight, breath more deeply...but my strongest point is my "mental state".

However, fankly, my last two months were really the boiling point of my patience emotionally as facing unscrupulous people. I have lost much of my time in managing such challenges. Postively, tomorrow, i must sweat all out, challenging the 10km walk through hilly action in speeding up or stress test for this summit.

I will not ask for more time as I am really looking forward to this enjoyable trip with best of buddies especially after conquering the Summit, to the island of tits. Wow...

Continuing.....

Another BM Quits

2009-04-07T17:18:00.002+08:00

Whilst all BMs are preparing smart and hard for the summit this monthend, we have just received the announcement of one of the most interesting BM quiting this quest of conquering Mount Kinabalu. The last round, we had our Joe but was almost effortly replaced by another BM. This time round, it is hard to get a replacement but who knows, there may just another BM waiting to fill up this seat ! This is so a positive news like the stock market nowadays.

Hey, the good thing is the rest are ever eager to ensure 100% success of this scalping ! (I had just bought my windbreaker/sweater that cost me a bomb ! so..the commitment is definitely 100% here although lately I am faced with a lot of challenges...)

Seriously, this morning, is just my 2nd time continuously work myself up in preparing the quest...mind me...it is only about 24 days left. BM1 told me that we need to disciplinely carry out our own training during weekday whilst for weekend, we can do it together.

This week, we will scale Mount singai again (3X I guess to recover the last 3 trips which are supposed to be done !). I hope BM1, BM2, BM6 & BM8 can all make it to this last few training together...

I shall calling you....wherever you go ... (Digi theme song....)

FIRST FAMILY MOVIE IN CINEPLEX

2009-04-02T17:59:00.003+08:00

A free ticket to Movie at Star Cineplex was given to Rachel as she achieved 6th position in her last Semester exam. It was given for all students who had achieved with 10 positions in the class. S0, I promised her to take her to the movie on last Tuesday, 31/3/2009 as the dateline is due for the ticket to be redeemed. We have decided to watch "Dragonball" as the rest are more towards adult preference.

She was very happy as I can see the radiance from her face as we reach the cineplex hall. I am happy too as this is the first time that I brought my whole family to a cineplex. Moses is also very happy as he keeps commenting during the movie (except the part that few teenagers behind keeps swearing vulgarities...shXt).

I hope to make more often especially when there is better "cartoon movie" around...may going for the one that Rachel is posting in front of the picture.

Discovering Truth or Lies

2009-03-25T21:01:00.004+08:00

In the last two weeks, I have been discovering lies made throughout the years. This is really sad especially the trust built up over the time has broken to pieces. A trusted person but it turn out to be mastermind of many dilemmas.

This trust once broken, it cannot be mend by human standard (even to my standard..hehehe). Though I am angry and sad, I looked up at Jesus, whom has been cheated, betrayed, spanked, spit or even scorge, He can still forgive us...why can't we when we are His followers ?

Many a times, we have breached our promises with Him, we ask for forgiveness, He forgave us....

When i climbed Mount Singai two weeks ago, The Lord subtly gave me the message...forgive as I have forgiven you. I will not forsaken you even the rest despise you.

When the dust was about to settle down, today, I discovered more lies (truth about lying) and complications. I could not believe this is happening. I am gathering more information and it is just so sad... hai...

Moving On With New Toy

2009-03-07T10:50:00.004+08:00

Finally, I have changed my phone service provider to Maxis, by porting my old faithful number from Celcom. I am with Celcom since 1997, April after I came back from KL to start work at the branch office in Kuching. That is the time when I have bought my first Nokia 232 and sign up the line ever since.

This big change of service has rocked me for the last two weeks or so especially getting the porting successful and to the right plan. I have been in communication with at least 10 Maxis customer service staff...many of them I must say that are not well trained and may be their performance drop due to hectic requirement from customer. however, few are excellent and I am really impressed.

Well, why the big move ??? Am I not satisfied with Celcom ? Nope, they are good and comparatively cheaper on average basis when compared to the other two telcos. However, I will save further on other charges like email, blackberry chats, msgrs etc.

The big carrot was I was enticed by my company's offer to take up blackberry (actually not offer, it is a requirement as the head) with the monthly subscription to broadband data line is fully adsorb by the company leaving us to pay installment over the black bold at average RM100.00 for 12 consequtive months. Not a bad deal except the deal is for 24 months basis. In any case, we leave the company, we have to pay on our own.

I am actually excited to have this connected in view of the power within this small equipment and so far, I have been using for the last 10 days, it is superb though I can be also being tracked every moment.

Disadvantage ? I must learn to be more discipline and patience as information are received promptly, so I need need to be more responsive whilst must have extra patience to evaluate information carefully rather than acting speedily without thoroughly assess the situation. At times, must buy time to understand whole scenario before acting further.

A bit small for me, so I have learnt new skills to be more tender to pressing or touching...even my eyes must be sharpen to be focus enough...(must also eat blueberry to strengthen the eyes muscles).Oh yes...incidentally..i have received an email talking above 5C (Cash, Condo, Car, Credit Card, Career)versus 5B (have Bungalows, have BMWs, own a Bank, be a Boss, have Brains)...but I think the author forgot about this Blackberry is another B for it !! (chuckles...)

I have not tried blogging from it...I will do it soon...when I am freer. hehehe chiao !

Time is running out !

2009-02-23T13:08:00.002+08:00

It is less than 68 days before our journey to the peak starts. Guess what....(no need to guess), I have not really started...actually not started as yet (one round two round...cannot be considered started), on my training. Oh yes, if you stop your traning and had a break over 10 days...then your fitness level will reset back to previously...(that is what the expert said !) So, considering the CNY break, whatever tested before new year, is all gone. I have to restart everything.

A lot of scary statements have been advised by my tour agent who had personally climbed the peak on 6/4/2008...yes, the photo is givne by her. She firmly said, if we do not pick up our training mode, then we can kiss our trip goodbye. You will suffer a lot, even for her she training and prepared well...every two three steps near the peak, she has to breath very deeply. She nearly gave up as it is becoming very tiring, dangerous etc. (BTW, she was stretcher down from the peak as half way descending, she missed one step....she feel down and broke her leg...(huuuu, hair stand)).

So BMs, reality check please ! (of all BMs, I have learnt that BM2 was the most discipline...hmmm)

Happy Valentine Day

2009-02-14T07:23:00.001+08:00

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

--1 Corinthians 13:4-7

Kick Start To Training

2009-01-29T07:02:00.003+08:00

I confess that I have only had twice training sessions, the last was some two weeks ago...walking 4 km at the Stutong Park with Heroes at 6.30 a.m. This morning (in fact few days ago too), we are supposed to do another few rounds but sad to say it is raining heavily at 6.30 a.m.

Why do we train in the morning at 6.30 a.m. ? I would say that is the best time available rather than evening when we have a hard finding (I mean myself) to spend for training as my office hour finished at 6pm.

So this morning, I took the training activities to surf internet instead for more information about conquering Mount Kinabalu and I found this site to be very informative as the writer clearly share the experiences for us to prepare ourself well.... Go and find out ! http://www.climbmtkinabalu.com/index.html

We have less than 93 days before the starting at Mesilau Gate. It is very exciting even as I type this blog whilst worrying about high attitude challenges...my stamina, my tummy, my legs...

This Saturday, I pray that there will be no rain at 6.30 a.m, so that we can go walking for at least 8 km (equivalent to the distance from Mesilau to the Summit) except it is on a flat ground :)

First Day At Work

2009-01-28T16:10:00.003+08:00

Today is the 3rd day of Lunar Chinese New Year. Time passes very fast, here I am in office after 4 days of holiday.

It is a quiet day but manage to secure one business as many offices are still closed and if open, the key people are still away on leave. No collection can be done in thses few days and to some customers, they do not like people to ask for payment within 15 days of the CNY.

Food is expensive with RM5.00 kolok mee for breakfast and afternoon, I have difficulty in finding place to eat as many favourite coffee shops are still closed.

Tomorrow, I shall be taking a day off to be with my children and wife as they are still on holidays. Still very much in new year mood and I think everything will return to usual by next Monday when everyone is back to work.

Better get back to work now...

GONG XI FA CAI

2009-01-25T22:36:00.003+08:00

May all your dream comes true in this year of Ox especially peace, hope, love, harmony and prosperity. Hardwork, resilience and toughness are among the many strengths of the Ox. May they brings you more determination and focus to excel in all your undertakings.

Take good care of yourself, pamper your family and you will find a lot of happiness and rejuvenation of health.

Spend more quality times with your family, you shall live more fruitfully.

Take good care of your team members and friends, you shall find more help coming when you need.

Remember the less the fortunate, you will find comfort and appreciation in them.

Last, but most important and sacred, always be with divine mercy to seek life real fulfillment and salvation, another closer step to your everlasting joy and peace.

"Gong Xi Gong Xi"

Chinese New Year Shopping

2009-01-19T07:42:00.003+08:00

It is only left with 6 days to "Sa Chap Mei", the mood is definitely gearing up and I can see more people coming out to shop over here in Kuching. However, I can be sure that the total sales figures is much lower than previous years. Everyone is more conscious about spending though they still buy new clothing, new year decoratives and goodies. May be not to some of you...as your Fountain of Wealth flows bottomless... or may be many have not received the bonus news from their companies...or just because of the recent floods has disorganised the festivity arrangement...

I bet you would agree with me that you still have not seen fireworks or heard any sound of crackers in these last few days to the reunion dinner. In our younger time, we have already burned few boxes of crackers and half of the "chip ponk". Still again, the price is cheaper this year. I was told that 3,000 sounds only cost RM18...however, limited stocks is available.

Let's pray deeply every of our plans shall go better than expected ! Moooo...ooo

Water came first...before the final crunch !

2009-01-13T08:03:00.003+08:00

The last two days were hectic days and I hope it is the end of it though today, the Meteorology Department had forecasted the grandest King Tide will be visiting Kuchingnites tonight. Almost everyone in Padungan areas suffered quite badly from flooding. My office suffered twice flooding since Sunday evening.

We were so pump up to face the financial crunch effects trying to resolve best strategy to minimise the impact but got hits first from this total flooding disaster. What a mess indeed.

It has never been so bad in the past 20 years as reported for this area of the CBD. Many business premises suffered badly.

I continue to pray for better tomorrow, I pray for strong unity and resilient to bull through the year...the Year of Bull !

At least, I have tried !

2009-01-05T21:02:00.003+08:00

1. I have tried to motivate the people around me....make them happy especially my loved ones, family, close buddies, friends...

2. I have tried to put better quality in my life...and share with others, I will achieve very soon....

3. I have tried to exercise more, it will from now onwards...at least I have climbed Mount Singai last week !

4. I have tried to inform my class reunion 2009 chairman, but no news...I tried to call him but no answers.

5. I have tried to blog better and at least 3 blogs per week....I believe I will...

6. I have tried to be more capable in handling problems/crisis as good as good news..I will keep trying...

7. I have tried to spend meaningfully..I need to do it to make every RM bigger to cover more satisfaction...

8. I have tried to be more creative in my work ..I hope to improve another few notches...

9. I have tried to be more IT savvy...I am still trying very hard.

10. I have tried to read more....to read a book a week, I am trying my best...

There are so many things in life that I must try.....so long I am not afraid or avoid trying them, I think I will be a better person every moment. So now, must start listing down the things that worth trying...any suggestion ?

GOOD BYE 2008

2008-12-31T19:35:00.002+08:00

A challenging year indeed...as I am still in office clearing hurdles... I pray for better new year 2009 and most importantly to have a blessed new year in God's grace. Btw, the first English message received from on lady friend which touches me;

"2008 going, 2009 dawning but God is always the same yesterday, today and
forever. Therefore fix our eyes on Him (Hebrew 12: 1-3)"

So Goodbye 2008, Happy Celebrating New Beginning of 2009. Let's grow wiser & patience in facing challenges and most of all, be happy and do make people around us to be happy.

Christmas Is A True Gift

2008-12-25T16:00:00.003+08:00

Hohoho...Many SMS sent/received for the last 24 hours all due to all our great joy for Christmas is here again (the phone cos are going to be smiling all the way to the bank). For the next 13 days of Christmas, we are going to celebrate with gratitude for God's love for us.

May the spirit of Christmas prepares us well in facing the much trumpetted financial woes ahead of us and may we all sail smoothly and our country will always be in peace and save through the worst of financial crisis better than 97. Also make us a better person to share and appreciate what we have and continue passing on the goodness of what we have received to our neighbours beside our loved ones.

Merry Christmas..Happy Birthday Jesus...

Christmas Caroling With Legion Of Mary

2008-12-20T06:01:00.005+08:00

This year, we have started the Christmas carol on 17th Dec bringing good news and joy to the world. We have only covered 9 houses of which two of the houses are actually children's homes. The photo below was taken during the singing at Salvation Army (sorry it is blurr as I was also singing at the moment of taking..hehehe).

This annual event is part of our reaching out to community for Mater Misericordae (Mother of Mercy) Praesidium of Legion of Mary. To be specific the houses that we go are those suffered emotionally, physical or spiritual. This is to give assurance and support especially during this time of peace and joy.

Beside singing out at the top of our voice, we have also brought gifts for the children and Santa was flown in to do the honour..hehehe..

Next photo is displaying my president, Raymond presenting a farewell gift to Zoey, our outgoing Treasurer (whom will be leaving for WM to undergo intensive training as the new police inspector...ahem...yes, Madam...)

It is always wonderful to be with my praesidium brothers and sisters when we walked the journey of Christ in companionship, doing our part for our creator and serving him. However, I must confess, it is also a great challenge as the devils are always there to confuse and distract our focus in carrying out the works of the Lord. My bros & sis always remind that the more you want to be with the Lord, the devils will put in even greater effort to distract you. So, always be aware and pray a lot to give stronger faith to ward off such temptations. In fact, it is true especially when we are doing good things.

We have another round on this Sunday at 12th mile Kuching/Serian road Orphanage home where 110 kids are waiting for a group of 30 of us to bring them wonder news...

Hohoho...Santa is here soon...

The Mood Is Building Up...

2008-12-19T05:39:00.003+08:00

Yesterday, I brought my family, my mother in law and two nieces to Boulevard and observed that the crowd is there. Many seem to already into the higher gear of preparing for their year end buyings, getting new clothing, gifts etc. This weekend, I believe it will be the peak...knowing that Christmas is just another 6 days to go, Chinese Winter Festival will be on this Monday and foremost our yearend cum Christmas gathering will be on this Saturday...don't you agree that the mood is reading on the way up...

Then at the kopitiam, the number is bigger than usual (in my heart, I am asking myself whether how true will recession be coming in ?). These crowd are likely those who had just finished shopping where stop for a refueling before heading home.

I didn't buy anything except colour papers and pens which is for our X'mas gathering tomorrow. Nevertheless, I was tempted to buy a new slack but decided not to...why? Guess ?

My RM (aka Rachel Moses) have been persuading me to buy their Christmas gifts. I have not prepared personally but was not interested to buy those displayed there as the quality is quite run down (that is why they have a 20% discount). Rachel has been asking for gameboy whilst Moses is all for Ben10 series.

Time is running out very soon and I need to work something fast for them before the celebration is over. I must admit admit that Christmas Gift giving is a treasure of my heart as my parents though do not give us expensive gifts but the event of giving gift during Christmas really remained sweet memories.

What we (my brothers/sister) have prepared during our time was we will put up stokings (of course we put up the big one...the football stoking) at the window knobs of our living room and pray together in front of our lighted Christmas tree to God for blessing and Santa to grant our wish. Then we will go to bed very early at around 9pm. Waking up very early the next morning, we will find present/gift in the stoking. At that time, we really believe that Santa had came physically to place the gifts for us and in fact it is, through the form of our parents.

Yes, without the grace of God, we will not be able to accept and practice the goodness of gift giving. A gift does not need to be expensive but meaningful even a sms will suffice, if we send with sincere care and concern (A hug is a good gift to reassure another and oneself of the care and support for one another...)

This is a time of sharing, bonding and reflection for the graces, blessings that we have experienced and reaching to everyone we care and love. May we enjoy this season with stronger faith, love, peace and harmony together with family, friends and neighbours. Pass on the light of Christmas till it warmth all around us...

Rudolph..Here We Go Again ! Ho ! Ho ! Ho !

2008-12-11T13:04:00.003+08:00

In two weeks time, we shall be celebrating Chirst's birthday and in Kuching here, Heroes, Ivy & myself decided to organise a season ending get-together on coming 20th at Kenny Rogers, The Spring Shopping Mall at 12.30pm.

It is the 2nd time such a gathering being held on family basis after the first one at my home last year. Well, we have combined the reunion gathering for Kuching friends on this gathering too,..killing 2 birds with one throw.

Foods will be on AA basis. On activities, a gift exchange for kids will be organised. Every parents will have to prepare gifts worth not less than RM15.00 for the exchange between kids. A season ending cake cutting (A fee of RM8.00 per family will be collected for the buying of the cake) shall also take place plus family wish writing, singing...etc etc.

I have sent out notices and so far 5 families have confirmed. We hope more will confirm before the closing date at 6.oopm on 12/12/2008 so that we make appropriate arrangement.

Cheers !

What Do You Like To Hear ?

2008-11-26T20:09:00.003+08:00

Frankly, the songs that I do not prefer to hear at this moment is the GongXiFaCai but just can help it when you are in Kenyalang Commercial Centre in Kuching though it is still very much about 60 days to go. You bet...they are already playing the songs as to push the sales of the CNY VCD/DVD and could not care for Christmas songs etc although I saw the decoration offered are still very much Christmas settings. Hmm...confuse ?

However, the real fact is we will be into the last month of the year in the next few days, so time is running real fast. I have been promoting/asking few takers to organise our usual year end get together event but it seems they are non-commital or keep low profile leh. I hope very very soon, they will inform me that on certain date in December, please get ready your potluck for our get together....on yes ! (my ears are big but now are longer due to the waiting period I guess..)

Aha...how about the much waiting 21st Reunion SHS Alumni 88-90 ? It was a hit in the last round when we drum all the way...but this time round, things have been very quiet, no one seems to bother to ask although I have already few requests from the teachers when we last met, remember Mdm Wong, Mdm Hii, Mr. Lopez to name a few whom had yet to attend any of our past reunion events...

Heroes/Mr. Tee, apa dah jadi ? Pat, why so quiet ? Ivy, just busy with new boyfriend ? Joe, are the Hongkies coming again ? Ted, where are you, hello ? Am I singing solo here ? I thought it should have been a choir singing ?

I have a suggestion....as the immediate past chairman, we let Pat to check on his successor, boleh..tak ? or let Mr. Tee, who is THE contact King of our time...I was told by someone previously...(just can't recall who that was or probably in one of the emails)

Last but not least, the song that I like to hear now, is...from my boss....this year bonus shall be the same if not better ? If nothing, I will still give you.....do you like it also ? hehehe

Moses' 5th Birthday Cake

2008-11-22T09:13:00.002+08:00

I think very soon, we could just put in our real photo on the cake and eat it !

A Gift Grom HSBC

2008-11-17T21:30:00.002+08:00

This has been quite sometime already but my heart just felt strong to put few words on record.

On the actual day, HSBC was the first to wish me.."Happy Birthday"...this year via sms at 8.00 a.m sharp and then they have also mailed me a great birthday card and a gift voucher to redeem at Starbuck as display above. I could not help but indeed very impress and appreciate on their highest quality of services in reaching out to appreciate their good customers. The setting, timing and coordination of this appreciation deserves many claps when not only they are the only one who meet this standard of services whilst many others have been trying to emulate.

Last but not least, this is not an advertisement for them but it is my sincere admiration of their services that I would like to put on record. In corporate line, they have made the difference.

Thank You.

Tsunami Has Yet To Settle Down

2008-11-13T04:46:00.004+08:00

This morning report in Yahoo, it reads...US financial turmoil continues to worsen and now US Government may need more than US3 trillion to bail out companies (wonder...where do they have the money ? as we understand that they are the biggest borrower in the world and owing a lot of debt from other countries). The money continues to count. The latest recepient would be the automaker industry as it was learnt that GM is under a lot of stress.

Dowjones suffers 3rd straight losses with last night clocked in negative more than 350 points and I have just realised that the bank interest rate in US is now only 1% after they had a latest cut in late October. Experts said that they may go for zero if situation warrants (OMG...what is going on ?).

Luckily China declares over US580 billion stimulus plans in recent days and it did the wonder with rising of major Asia bourses indexes. However, how long will it last as rumours was saying...what are those stimulus packages actually ? Is it for real ? Or can it really stand off against US financial effects.

At local end, we had Tun Dr. M advises that to handle this mammoth financial issues, we need International cooperations and he does not have the confidence in Obama to settle this turmoil alone...what more to Najib, our next PM.

Government is going forth with new approval of option to reduce contribution to EPF by 3% from employees is to aim in encouraging spending as to spur up the local economy. Does it really help ? To certain extent yes but majority will not opt for the 3% reduction as the amount involved is little (RM2,000 x 3% = RM60.00 per month) and it is better to keep in a retirement fund. That is probably why the government has given auto default that for those who does not want the 3% cut, they have to fill up the form. Well, through this action, a lot of us may find inconvenience to fill up the form and thus we join many others to automatically have our EPF contribution reduced by 3%. That is a great strategy by the government, isn't it ?

Nevertheless, it may be good for those who are discipline enough, using that extra money to invest themself in more profitable investment vehicle as I think (I hope not) EPF dividend for this year may be reduced downward (last year, it was 5%) in view of the economic downturn.

I pray for Mahathir-like economic management style (in our government) will help yet another saving for Malaysia from this devastating effects of financial rolling of US Financial Tsunami...

Obama's Win Gives Hope

2008-11-07T22:20:00.003+08:00

For the last two days, I have been reading a lot congratulatory messages about the 44th US President from a lot of people especially the leaders of Malaysian politics. I am asking myself, how sincere are their statement about the importance of picking leader of great competence ? against race/religion ? (biggest statement of all..is anyone can become PM ! kukukukuk)

Will it happen in Malaysia context in near future ? May be only when our country celebrates its 300th years of independence like US.

Nevertheless, I believe the hope is stronger and brighter and hopefully we have competent leader to lead our country through this political and financial turmoil in shortest time.

My Beautiful Sister

2008-11-05T21:06:00.004+08:00

Happy Birthday, my dearest sis. I love you very much (Muacchh!). You make such a wonderful wish tonight as you had happily disclosed to me. I am very blessed to have you as my big sister.

Ee-ee had given you such a wonderful birthday gift this year (...no need to guess long...I read your face...smiling gleefully). We all know that you like reading a lot and mum & dad (especially dad) are very impressed when you can read Mandarin fluently (he is still wondering how to catch up on those Chinese characters). Tonight you have read 10 pages of Genesis...without assistance (wow !)

Beside, mum bought the lovely Hello Kitty cheese cake, a watch and pink bag. Dad buy you a mum-mum KFC....such a great time ! I have prepared a birthday card but can only later.

My birthday is also coming soon liau....yeh...yeh..my time lo....need to list down my gift list..power ranger, Ben 10, Naruto....Mystique Force....etc etc...(Uncle Eric...remember yo !)

How far can we go ?

2008-10-27T21:12:00.003+08:00

Of late, I met a lot of old people still working hard and I meant those really old and less fortunate still going around to sell some business. Is this because they are not prepared earlier to retire well or because certain unfortunate situation ?

We will be old one day...just another 20 years from now, have we prepared for our retirement ? or are we going to continue working hard till we are very old ?

We may be earning quite a decent pay or money for now...and we need to plan well for our retirement fund, we will waste our funds. Before planning, we must have aim or goal...what is the goal ? How much do we want for our retirement fund ? (I remember, I have proudly shout for RM3m in excess of my liability at the age of 55 in one of the financial planning seminar some years back. hehehe...)

Recently, one of my girlfriends reminded me of foreign land investment. A tempting with its guarantee return and capital beside currency returns. Then on last Friday, my corporate client informed me about going all out for the Bursa Saham when it dipped to 600points....I can be assured of securing 100% return in 2-3 years time when it rebounds.

Hello...Nikkei just dipped to 26 years low and the siren of recession is ever resounding...but our national leaders are still in state of denial (Negara kita masih imun kepada krisis kewangan...)..luckily we are celebrating Deepavali today, thus Bursa is closed for the day. Tomorrow, do prepare to hear for the worst.

I have been hearing a lot news reminded us to prepare for the worst especially after the new year. Whatever it is, in Chinese sayings...there is always opportunity in crisis. We must not be sucked in by the negativity but prepare ourself to suck the best side of worst. Think about conserving your $$ for better investment tools....

The Game has started !

2008-10-21T13:31:00.003+08:00

Heroes & I have just booked the airticket to KK and this marked the starting of the conquering acts and accomplishing of our teenage dream. Yeap, we want to start the ball rolling and we are committed to make it a reality. At least 3 others had verbally said yes...and we are just waiting for their firm answer which I expect in the next 24 hours.

We have no reason to delay our fitness training anymore...and we have to start it right away as it only 6 months from the expedition date....a new blog will be created soon to track our preparation..

Three Stooges At Rest

2008-10-17T18:25:00.003+08:00

A great time indeed as three of my friends are resting due to intoxication whilst I am still "yam shen" the fourth bottle of Balenvine whiskey with others. Everyone was enjoying themself as they unwind after hectic day and I don't mind to have drinking session once a while although I know it is health destroying agent as we may also get stuck with it as be considered a hardcore drinker @ drunkard.

Have a nice weekend.

Sarawak Squash Closed - Kuching Leg 2008

2008-10-14T15:45:00.004+08:00

I am proud to announce that an overweight player managed to secure 3rd placing in this friendly event for Men under 40 instead of a competitive nature as frankly I considered the event has only give a small light to the success of its objective in drawing interest of casual players especially those above aged 30 years old.

The feat was achieved after winning my opening match and then lose out to eventual Champion before winning the crucial 3rd placing match against my usual playing partner. For sure, the mood and situation is totally different when we are playing in competitive mode as compared to usual relax sweating games.

The Champion is a 20 years chap, ex-state player and the 2nd position is a coach aged 19 years old. With our aged running near to duplication as compared to them, it is a consolation for this achievement. hehehe...

In total only 10 players were in this event, showing the level of interest of what the organiser intended to promote. However, it was a totally different scenario for kids where overwhelming participation was registered. Our usual court at the club turn to a bazaar fair on the competition days.

For sure, I am looking forward for more of such events in near future as to continue to promote healthy living, friendship and fellowship of new mates as we progress in life. The next stop is in Miri, 31 Oct -2nd Nov 2008....

Snippets - Imitating Anwar

2008-10-08T23:12:00.003+08:00

At least for now, it seems that the hoo-hah about going to Bali, Macau, Hong Kong, Beijing, Shanghai,...or any other parts of the world is not going to happen in the near future at least for 2008. Nobody seems to echo further to make the trip happen.

Expenses is rising, international economics tumbling is affecting the mind and eventually its rippling will come to the Malaysian shore...it is definitely worrying rather than focusing our mind on going holidays (Nikkei just had worst tumbling in 20 years, Jakarta suspend its market today after felling touched more than 10%...whatelse is coming ?).

For the last hour, I have been surfing the airlines websites to evaluate the latest pricing and the outcome is not promising as prices has gone up (memanglah...if tidak book awal awal).

However, I did manage to book the holiday package for both my kids for their annual trip back to Sibu with their grandmother-in-law this coming December. The price is still reasonable...to and fro RM350 for both and plus my own ticket for escorting them...RM90.00.

Don't worry.....we must keep positive mindset, our dream trip will surely happen one day very very soon...please keep saving for the day to come.

*** Anyone interested to sign up the Mount Kinabalu Quest in May 2009 ? Captain is Mr. Tee. Further reference you may surf his blog by just enjoying the picture of the mighty mountain with a word of challenge on it with no further illustration on how he is going to do it ?

Foochow Birthday's Eggs

2008-10-05T20:20:00.006+08:00

It has been years, since I last tasted this type of birthday egg, a fried hard boiled egg with "mee sua" (of course it is better if the mee sua is done in chicken soup)...it is delicious...and you can see my nephew already walloping the egg (BTW...there is another type served for happy occasions ...it is soaked in red...I dun know what ingredient is that).

What occasion is that for ?

It is my dad's birthday..which falls on 2nd of October. Frankly, it was not planned but somehow, I recalled his birthdate on the night before whilst waiting for my wife who was buying some food at the famous Sibu pasar malam during my last short trip back to Sibu. So, I informed my eldest brother and we decided to organise a birthday dinner.

Ann Na & Ann Ann (my nephews - William's kids) presented their personally drawn birthday cards for their grandpa. A big smile can be observed on my dad's face.

We all sang happy birthday song (in two versions) to my dad and had a sumptuos dinner together. My dad and mum were indeed very happy and joyful.

In fact, Rachel & Moses had already surprised their grandpa in the morning when they wished him "Happy Birthday".

I am planning one for my mum this coming December, I guess it will be in Kuching when they will be here attending my sister's bro-in-law's wedding.

Did You Ever Buy ?

2008-09-25T18:27:00.002+08:00

This was drawn in yesterday session of CASH Result. Anyone won ? If I bought just RM1,000, I could have struck RM2,500,000.00 ! (na shi wa u chi ba ban....this song lingering in the mind)

With luck...it is such an easy way to become millionaire..believe it ? Yes, it is just so true....can get enough money to settle a lot of things and help a lot of people in need

Buy a lottery ticket (not this 4D) only costs RM3.30, you will stand a chance to it. A chance...ok.., we just do not know when but if the luck is there...you will get it ! That is why many still loyally buy the lottery ticket as the hope is always there....it will just come...

In a real me...I seldom buy 4D or lottery tickets...just do not have the urge of every Wed, Sat & Sunday not like my parents who are quite addicted to buy 4D. My mum said it is helping her maintain her working brains...remembering numbers and combinations especially maths.

Some of my friends are also very attracted to this number game. If you play it properly within your means...I guess it is an exciting game. But please refrain from seeking medium or praying to trees etc for such numbering, you may be betting with your life to the devils...

Anyone like to share their experience of winning the big one ??? or tips of putting up the numbers or interpretation of dreams or experiences...?

Opportunities Ahead

2008-09-19T00:13:00.003+08:00

About two and a half years ago, I have invested in direct share market via a friend's account. It was a good investment and I have earned some handsome profit (to my definition) where I have purchased a parabolic which I have enjoyed till today the fruit of it. Till a year ago, I have opened up my own share account finally and also have been quite active in investing my money but have temporarily stop investing further in the market since 6 months ago as the price of shares has been dropping after the Chinese New Year. I told myself to cease further activities till the price has dropped to rock bottom and also prevent from burning all my reserves...chialat ! (BTW, I have also forgot my online password after long time did not use...so now also cannot trade online...hehehe).

Today, as the biggest news of financial melt down in US with several big giant banks has dropped to their knees and some have declared bankrupt appears....the question of whether I should consider jumping in to buy the future opportunities ? like the one in 1997 (which I miss the boat sadly) to earn the capital gains once overall recovery in the next 3-5 years ? Genting now is 4+, Mayban is 6+ (in 1997, I learned it was down to 3+) An opportunity not to be missed without thorough consideration ? Guys....look down and up, in and out...consider deeply and hopefully we could get the breakthrough through this one big gain !

Hey...before wrapping up your decision...please be careful on the traps and loopholes....we may trap ourself through our ignorance as the situation know may not be rock rock bottom...we must make sure our financial resources are all protected as the situation of what is happening in US may get worst and the rippling effects may just get us (Malaysian) blown off especially when our political stability it at its worst of history.

I have just watched "money not enough 2" dvd this evening...the pain of shortage of money may get one crazy and heartless. It was a touching movie especially how realistic the world of today can be...when I did mention in the comment section of my friend's blog on what can be possible silently cooking in the person's mind which is very critical in forming the killer action which may harm others or selfishly protect themself for their own good and at the expense of others even among family, the avoidance of responsibility is inevitable. It is scary and is serve as reminder.

Whatever in future, I pray all of us will always realise and work towards the goodness in harmony and peaceful relationship in building better homes and community at large.

Well, before moving on with your life, think of the opportunities ahead of us....be positive in life and sieze the day with confidence ! You are a Champion ! Yes ! Semangat Yakin Yes !

Just do not miss the boat without consideration...yeah.

Thankful For Life

2008-09-15T22:48:00.003+08:00

Successful ones always advise in their speeches, writings or testimonials to appreciate life and in all we have live. I agree totally and always reminded myself of the thanksgiving to what I have been blessed.

We must appreciate life and those obstacles in life is part and parcel of the perfection journey where everyone will need to go through. Positive ones will always look for solutions to their obstacles rather than rattlings on difficulties or problems without even try to resolve them.

"If we practise what the successful ones practices, we will eventually taste the same success" says one of the successful leader. 'If we have not achieve the success, it may be that we have not follow or practise the exact method....do not lose your faith, be patience and definitely we will reach the shore"...he added.

Wherever I am down, I keep reminding myself how lucky I am when compared to many other..i.e probably 95% others in the world whom many may have not live through their first 5 years of life or having gone through much painful life without having the opportunity to write this blog.

As I journey to Kuching airport this morning, I saw a group of general workers walking slowly to their construction site @ Four Seasons Hotel which is scheduled to complete/open by Dec 2008 - another project by TPK, I start to imagine what sort of life they are going through. A nearer reflection will be the kongsi house just in front of my house. It is a contrast of two world probably.

I am wary of the increasing higher cost of living with satisfaction of oneself. One needs to constantly improve their performances to enable greater returns in their investment of time. It may also turn into a pressure in coping up with the challenges in life. However, I believe with the sense of appreciation in us, it may lessen the piling pressure on this expectation as it give consolation.

My friend, appreciation is a start to our charity and blossom to success. From this, we may value more on life as knowingly it is shorter by seconds as we live on. Therefore, always try to make every moment worthwhile especially with loved ones. Cheers !

Snippets

2008-09-12T21:34:00.002+08:00

Crying In The Open

Why do we cry ? We cry because our mind could not process sensibly our sad, angry, frustration or happy emotion in that moment of time ?

In the last few weeks, I have few ladies crying in front of me (not my wife and definitely not because I bully or taking advantage) because they felt great pressure when overheard negative feedbacks from peers beside great challenges in delivering their performance. In fact over the years, I have faced with such situation and now is definitely much more steady as to handle such situation and I could still remember my great mentor shared with me years back when he keeps a box of tissues eveready on his table just for such ocassion.

I told them that tears is a precious drop of water and they must strenghten themself in moving forward. Breakdown the issue upfront and always open up in discussion with close peers to get moral support, guides and develop options.

I do cry (in fact quite a lot when I was kid)...when I am sad or could not get what I could obtain or deliver or felt pain after a fall or injuries. People says it is good for washing your eyes and clear your clog emotion (may be that is why I still maintain my 20/20 vision..hehehe). As I matured, I am able to control this crying switch better.

When was the last time you shed your tears ?

Matta Fair is on 5th - 7th September

2008-09-05T04:40:00.002+08:00

I think this be the last big promotion for the year 2008. Those who have not made up their mind to where they are going during these few days, will probably have to bear higher cost of airfare from now till April 2009.

A quick check on the promotion by AirAsia & MAS, the fare to my favourite places is attractive. Even going back to Sibu in Nov 2008 is cheap as we can get zero fare.

Few weeks back, there were talks among friends to consider a vacation in China@Beijing. It seems that with the escalation of costs, the talk has fizzled out. Bottomline as one of the friends pointed out, time is needed to accumulate funds. It is true, we need to have those extra ringgits at least RM3,000 comfortably for a decent trip and those preferred extra services may need to allocate another RM1,000 (so, I hope my friends have already started to save RM500 last month for the intending trip). I think it is more towards a mind game in managing the financial demand when one wish to spent a big sum for a good holiday. The big question is always...we will ask our inner self whether it is worthwhile ?

I must say...it is definitely worthwhile...money spent can be earned back but time spent can only be reflected in memories. Therefore, to be able to spent your time on good holiday especially with friends is invaluable moments or I must say it is a blessing that we received from the Almighty.

So...anyone still interested to have 2009 Reunion in Beijing @ China ? Importantly, don't miss this last opportunity and just check with your favourite travel agent for better deals for your holidays. You may not go...but at least give yourself a chance to consider the options..who knows...you will still make the trip in the end !

Snippets - Highlights

2008-09-02T19:46:00.003+08:00

Be Alert On Our Electricity Bill

Our government recently announced new incentive under the Budget 2009 for the lower income group whereby for those consume monthly electricity below RM20, all charges shall be waived. So, anyone want to install extra meter to ensure your charges is below RM20 ? getting the waiver !

Before considering the above, I myself have just realised of an "irresponsible act" from the service provider whereby they have been charging my monthly usage for the past 5 years based on estimated basis. What is the discrepancy ? Well, I had only realised it after moving to my new house when I discovered the high charges of RM100+ although I have moved out in May 2008. My wife has actually told me two months earlier but as usual, I do not take immediate action for what Iconsider is small matter. Then last week, I went back to my old house to get my mails and the latest copy of the electricity bill was among the other mails. I remember what my wife had said and I quickly went to the meter to check the accuracy of the reading...

OMG...my meter reads only 9600 points but the estimate has already run into near 11,000 points. As expected, I can feel my blood pressure is rising quite rapidly (as my neck start to feel the heat) ....almost immediately I started to press my handphone to call SESCO.

Tooo.toooo..then....a sweet voice was answering my call...(my blood pressure cool off a bit)...I started to inform her about my discovery...and she is so warm and confidently tell me that she will immediately update my bill and the changes shall be reflected in my next month bill. That's it ! Such a straightforward reply from her and just because of her nice handling and assurance of the amendment, I do not grumble further and put down the phone.

However, deep in my heart..I know this is just not right and I have been paying the extra charges based on the estimates. So, if there are 30,000 customers experience like what I have....the service provider could collect the extra charges and earn on the interests for free ! we may be talking about millions of ringgit here.

Few days later, I have also conveyed to Ah Too & Mr. Tee during our usual game...they said...normal...lah ! That is why every other month, they will call up SESCO to give them the actual reading...to ensure they do not get over charged !

Well, folks....don't be like me...start checking your electricity meter to ensure the accuracy and don't give free interests to this sucker (it is just too easy for them to suck people) !

Today Is My 13th Anniversary...Life In My Industry

Yes, today is great day indeed as I reflect my first day working in an insurance company. Can you imagine, I left my house at 7.00 a.m just to reach office early but only reach home at 3.00 a.m the next morning ? My girlfriend was so worry for me and keep calling on my house phone so many times (until my housemates also start to worry) beside had to ride her bike from BBB to my rented house in Serdang just to check my whereabout (those days I do not own any handphone...so cannot be reachable so easily).

What had actually happened between 7.00 a.m to 3.00 a.m.? Anyone want to guess ?

Sarawak's 45th Independence Day

2008-08-28T03:17:00.002+08:00

First, let me declare that I do not keep these flags like one of my girlfriends did with her school badges. I was trying to get a Sarawak flag and I find this photo very unique as providing history learning on all the flags flown in our State since 1848. I bet many of us may not know such deep history or may have forgotten (Do you realise or is there any fengshui significance on the current colour of the flag with the Brooke's dynasty ?)

I was actually awake yet again due to discomfort of my tummies but later felt that it is more towards my body stress due a overdue massage session....sore feeling here and there especially had few tight squash games on last Saturday and yesterday.

Hmm...after browsing online news, I thought about the big celebration this Sunday...our Merdeka Day...I have not prepared anything for it as yet. Further, I keep trying to recall when was my last time singing the National Anthem and State Anthem. Alamak !...can't remember how to sing the State Anthem ??? (I know I was one of the most glaring voice during the school assembly...seriously, anyone of you remember ? :) ).

Hai, memang malu ! Thanks to our IT connecting ability...nah....within seconds...I got the lyrics...Ibu Pertiwiku

Sarawak Tanah Airku

Negeriku Tanah Airku Sarawak

Engkaulah tanah pusakaku

Tanah tumpah darahku Ibu pertiwiku
Rakyat hidup mesra dan bahagia

Damai muhibah sentiasa

Bersatu Berusaha Berbakti

Untuk Sarawak kucintai
Sarawak dalam Malaysia

Aman makmur Rahmat Tuhan Maha Esa

Kekallah Sarawak bertuah

Teras perjuangan rakyat

Berjaya berdaulat

Can sing ? (I can now....automatic...lah....hehehe). I will sing on this Sunday together with my kids in celebrating the birth of our country/state. hoohah..

Snippets - Events of the Day

2008-08-15T14:12:00.003+08:00

1. Assumption of Mother Mary - 15th August

A day if obligation for all Catholics...in remembrance of the assumption of our Lady, the first to assume into Heaven.

2. A new laptop - Dell Vostro 1310

After 5 years using the old PC, my management decided to approve a laptop for my business usage. Just received this new baby 2 hours ago although it has been conceived for about 1 month.

Product Details
Processor Brand : Intel Processor Class: Core 2 Duo
Processor Speed : 1.8 GHz
Installed Memory : 2 GB
Hard Drive Capacity : 250 GB
Display Size : 13.3 in
Operating System : Microsoft Windows Vista
Weight : 4.6 lbs

So, new baby...a lot of exciting moments to go through this weekend...

3. School holiday starts after today...

Rachel & Moses shall be free as the bird for the next 1 week as their school holiday starts tomorrow till next Sunday 24/8/2008. I will also be taking break for few days though earlier I was thinking heavily for a trip outside Malaysia but due to my wife's work engagement in Ipoh next week, I have to take care of the kids solely...

Cigarette Butts

2008-08-12T12:58:00.003+08:00

I have many times like to put up this blog as I just do not like the way most of the smokers litter around while they enjoy their puffing and especially when they just throw out their cigarette butt from their vehicle while driving and you are right behind them observing their act.

I have just observed one this morning ! (Buds, when was the last one you see ? Shaking your heads ? or butts ? )

Yes, it is their right and choice to smoke but please do respect for others for their right also.

My prayer for them is hopefully they would realise not only they are killing the mother nature by littering around, they are also killing their family and neighbours through their second hand smoke though they have their own right to kill themself slowly.

I have many smoker friends/customers/associates and only handful of them respect others even few do collect their butt in a special box.

To smokers....I appeal to you to respect your neighbour whilst you smoke, do not litter, do not smoke in air-con room/place. If you have done that, I respect you.

The Games Has Begun...

2008-08-08T22:26:00.004+08:00

Managed to hook myself to TV just now from 8.45pm to 9.30pm...if not Joe's prophecy may be materialised on me...

A fabulous show...but not from Astro...I watch the original from a China's station...via statellite...wow...a fanstastic show...managed also to witness our Malaysia team walking passed the main podium...but didn't see our PM standing up ??? (why ?? all the rest I saw...President Bush, President Chin Tao, Sania Gandhi, Japan PM, Russia President and Israel PM) hmmm...mungkin banyak hal penting dalam negara sekarang...tak dapat luangkan masa untuk Olimpik ini...hai :(

Kampua Mee increases again !

2008-08-05T10:30:00.009+08:00

Look carefully....

Another store just opposite to the above store...btw...kolok mee also increased...

1997 - a plate is RM1.80
2007 - a plate is RM2.20
mid 2008 - a plate is RM2.80 (now is RM3.00)....it is a 67% increase over the last 11 years (average 6% annually) and it is not stopping..

So, it this trend continues...a straight line basis...every 10 years, we can expect RM1.80 increase...so by 2038 (the day we reach 57 years old)..it shall be RM6.60 per plate ! May be this is still okay...as we could probably be richer by that time...with EPF funds...hehehe...but then again...how about when fresh graduates are still only earning RM2,000 per month for starter ??? Can they survived ??

My 5S3

2008-08-03T17:51:00.003+08:00

I think we were in one of the monthly test....now...you know who is so confident... ? :)

Best Buddies

2008-07-29T22:07:00.003+08:00

Is it not that the above photo gave us a lot pondering about friendship...best buddies in and around our life ?

Buddy whom you can talk about almost anything and trusting that he or she will keep the secret only for himself/herself. A person who could share your burden at the least have a listening ear...

A buddy is more than just a friend. To some, it may be even a closer definition than to a brother or sister ? but definitely not closer than your husband or wife (I hope I do not start a domestic enquiry over this definition).

I have received a message over email sometime ago, it said..."A true buddies is like angels lifting you up or helping you to remember how to fly your wings when they are down..."

In my very first writing, I did mention about friend and buddy...listing them down and value them individually....so how many buddies that you have in your life so far ??

Don't confess here...just count it in your pure heart, after that pray for each one of them...okie ! (I hope I am one of them...hehehe)

Real Sweat

2008-07-27T13:29:00.007+08:00

With a new racket, I was eager to test it to the max since the day it was return to me but I was only able to try it out yesterday. It is indeed a better racket than the older brother. More power and control felt throughout the game with Rich.

This is also the first the two brothers met each other on court. Their length is the same except the netting area differs. The younger chap seems to have longer and bigger spacing on netting.

It was a hard game though we have only played two sets (A Draw-one each). In fact, I have not played a game since a month ago. Judging from the photo I took, you would agree indeed I would need a lot of fast games to improve my stamina and sharpen my rusty skills...

Luckily, Mr. Tee is not free to join the game....if not the earlier prophecy shall be or not fulfilled...hehehe

It's a Miracle ! I Believe

2008-07-24T04:09:00.004+08:00

Before anyone trying to ask me why am I blogging at this hour, I wish to declare that I have a stomache and already went twice to the loos. This is probably due to the good food I had this evening...after few days under green scrutiny (this is norm as when after too long not having oily food, suddenly you have a big sum....your stomache will get upset and the other reason is heaty situation). Well, I am not going to talk about this and totally not my intention to mention this except to explain why I am up blogging....

I have a real story to share where I have personally heard from her personal experience yesterday evening during our Legion of Mary's 16th Annual Gathering with 30 others stand witnessing.

Sister Adrianna Tiong is a 66 years old Catholic nun who soon after promoted as Sister General of local Convent was diagnosed with few complication of health in late 2006; kidney function is about 20%, heart problems with main artery blocked 100%, few others swollen and lung accumulated with waters. Doctor has strongly advised for immediate heart surgery in order to ensure her life can be preserved but due to her weak kidney, the doctors need to cure the kidney situation. Over that period, Sr. Adrianna was going through very difficult moments with a weak heart, heavy breathing and tiredness but she has considered not to go for heart surgery as she felt that she is already old and had lived long enough...thus leaving to God for his arrangement.

Few months back, Bob Canton (a wellknown Catholic spiritual leader from US) has organised a 3 days spiritual rally at Blessed Sacrament Church (at BDC). It was a good opportunity for many people in Kuching to experience the spiritual healing as many has witnessed in Bob's previous visit to Kuching few years back. A friend of Sr. Adrianna had called (persuaded) Sr to come back from Sibu to join this good opportunity. Sr. Adrianna finally managed to fly back and join in the second day of the rally. There was nothing experienced on the first day of attending. But on the 2nd day (3rd day of the rally), I think towards the end of the rally, Bob shared that he received a word of knowledge that God wants to give a person new heart, the person who suffer blocked arteries and a lot of fluid containment. Almost immediately Sr. Adrianna jump out to claim for the healing. As Bob prayed over her, she can feel the heat coming from Bob's palms and she laid down in the spirit. She was experiencing heavy breathing and a slight pain on the left chest. At that moment of time, there were 4 Emmause prayer members were praying deeply (3 ladies on the left side and 1 guy on the right side of Sr) and Bob was praying in tougue. Slowly, she felt her breathing is smoother and smoother. One of the Emmause lady member who was praying beside Sr. Adrianna shared that she had a vision witnessing that God had done a heart surgery on Sr. Adrianna, giving her a new heart.

From that moment onwards, Sr. Adrianna experienced stronger and strengthen as she does not felt tired anymore and later when she went for medical checkups, her health condition has recovered and normal. The doctor was amazed ! Praise the Lord ! Alleluia ! I have personally hear this from her tonight and I can experience her strength, joy and love for the Lord who has given her a new heart. It was really a fanstastic moment to share !

Nothing is impossible, all is possible with the Almighty. We do all the possible and let our God carry out the impossible. In his time, he will bless us abundantly and we only need to keep a faithful acts to his will.

Hmmm..I need to resume my sleep liao...my stomach still a bit pain (feeling heaty) but I think I can bear with it....Good night (oops morning now)...

Lost & Found

2008-07-16T09:42:00.003+08:00

My 2 days old racket has been found !

My darling was the prize winner and well, I will reward her a nice gift (at least RM100). I am so happy to receive her call this morning. Before she disclose her finding, she cleverly requested me to reaffirm my reward offer. I did and she said the racket was left at our usual car washing outlet at Jalan Ellis. The boss who knew us well inform my wife of this...

Hmm,...I could not believe it as it was not possible to have left it there ??? I was assured by my guest that he saw my racket in the boot earlier ?

Yes, I did send my car to cleaning outlet in that particular Friday afternoon but in the evening I am picking up my guest and he confirmed that it is there. Actually, I was about to buy a new Prince racket worth RM290.00 (weight 120gm) and I have to double check in KL this evening before deciding before the weekend.

Well, I am so happy but also wary that I need to inform my friends about the joy that I have this moment...so I called and inform Heroes and then my guest, just to keep him alert (although he never check on the lost since my last checking with him two weeks back).

Last but not least, thank you for all your prayers. (Never give up in your prayers...)

Debate

2008-07-15T22:32:00.002+08:00

Tonight there is a live telecast of debate over the increase of petrol between two leaders from different political parties. I do not watch as I do not subscribe to Astro or having the usual tv antenna to capture two channels. I believe it can be very fiery and interesting.

Reflecting on debate, I have only joined in one competition (in Form 5..i think) whereby we won 3rd prize...but I could remember when was it. It is definitely a special art to perform especially when we are trying to deflect and defuse the attacks from the opposition and those statements made must be valid and convincing with clear uttering of words. Emotion must be in check always as to ensure it does not run wild. Deduction of points will be made if one got mad and out of context.

Presenting one's opinion in clear and right manner are a good point of communication. Good communicating skills will win many favours from listeners whether they are friends or foes. If we are able to speak clearly with art and skill, one can win many hearts and solve many misunderstanding.

In negotiating terms and contracts, we need the art and skill deeply to present our case and attract our customer to understand and support our cause.

It is disheartening when we fail to communicate our ideas clearly or at times we do face challenges of expressing our views in direct and clear manners due to certain unwarranted cirscumtances.

Over years, I believe we must always have the courage to speak up and also to accept well of others' opinion. A win-win situation must be the aim for long term relationship although in business, it can be very "mean" with no hard feelings.

Going back to the live telecast, can anyone share with me how was last night's debate ?

Bitter Root

2008-07-12T02:50:00.002+08:00

If anyone can recalled what I have mentioned in one of my blogs where I said I was reading a book written by a Christian Preacher, Joel Osteen. Umm...that was probably about 4 months back...and I am still reading it.

Well, this morning (actually yesterday morning as now it is already 3.00a.m)...I have managed to finish reading another 2 chapters and left with probably 5 more chapters....it is a fast reading for my standard in 30 minutes. These two chapters have touches much of most of our current affairs in the company or family . Let me summarise the gist of the learning here in my own words;

a) We must respect the person in the authority (on the chair) although he or she is not doing what we like. We must work in the favour of the Lord and work with good faith and action. Our God is a fair God and he will pay back all we have done and all those who have done to him. Time will tell as we may not see it in time but it will come in time.

b) We must always appreciate our wife, children and family no matter how. We ought to spend quality time with them before they are gone or we are perished first. All the little things that they have done, appreciate them. Refrain from condemning them for mistakes but highlight the reason why you are not happy with their actions. Communicate well and share sincerely, and the relationship will be much strengthen. If you could not share all with them, then who can you share ?

c) Do not get even with your enemies but let God does the wonder. Be patience and forgive them like Jesus forgave all his oppressors but God raise him up and sit him next to him. It is not easy but if we are willing to make the first step, God is willing to be walk with us through the journey.

d) A bitter root cannot bear good fruit. What is rotten inside and if not being cure, whatever cured externally will not be lasting. If there is anger inside us, spit it out and make peace with the person or situation. If there are person we have wrong, seek forgiveness. Once this is clear, we will experience real peace and we will bear good fruits.

e) Do not soak ourself in negativities for long.... (suffering, anger, rejection, demotivation is understandable especially when going through sad tragic moments) we must stand up, let go and move on. God knows our pain but the choice is always ours to make. If we choose life, then let there be life...if we choose condemnation, we will doom ourself.

Lead a faithful life as the journey to salvation is a real testing before the final rewards. The choice is ours....Have a nice weekend.

Lost Notice

2008-07-06T12:39:00.004+08:00

"Head Liquidmetal 140 Flexipoint"

I am hereby pleased to put up this notice to inform that anyone who are able to find and return the above squash racket, a handsome reward shall be readily served.

***

The last time I saw my 2 days old new racket was on Friday evening when I opened my Matrix car booth as my guest from outstation puts in his bag. I have actually had also newly strung string & grip and had been hopeful to try it out with Mr. Tee that evening but due to assignment given, I had to serve my guest and forgo the games.

Indeed the price of serving is huge considering this racket was my most pricey investment since my first time having a racket (Dunlop Graphite back in 1990 - my mum actually approved the buying after I had earned my salary whilst working a coffee boy during school break)..(sigh...)

From a Sherlock Holmes' mind, I would think that the racket may have actually "slipped" out when my guest opened up the booth when I sent him back to his relative's house at Satok (behind the wet market). The racket is in its original slim cover and I have only put at the side (near the edge of the booth). In fact earlier, I have the 6th feeling that it may easily drop out if one is not careful when opening and closing the door but I suppress that feeling as I believe one's aware and sensitive and such will not happen. It could not be due to theft as my new big orange sport bag is still intact in the booth.

Well, what can I say ? For sure, I will not let this shortcoming to influence my mental, spiritual and physical growth though it is wasted as much resources is involved. I have learned (or reminders) another chapter great lesson....

LIFE

2008-07-01T13:26:00.002+08:00

(This is a contribution story from my wife who had received it from her friend and I thought it is worthwhile to share with all of you)

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter. The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.

QUESTIONS :
1. What were the five words ?
2. What is the implication of this story?

Happiness

2008-06-30T09:12:00.005+08:00

If we are not happy to live in this world, then we shall have a tough life ahead.
We must aim to be happy everyday as it is the inspiration to live a meaningful life.
There are always problems pop up everyday which may affect our happiness.
No matter how disgusting is other people trying to break our happiness, we must always stay calm and peace to accept that they are just part of everyday's problems.
Talking is easy but practicing it, I know is not an impossible act.
No matter how challenging, we must remember that without happiness, then our life forward will be even more challenging.
Unhappy person is contagious and same goes to happy person.
Do you like to become a unhappy person infecting other with your sadness or you want to be a happy person bringing joy to those your come across ?
I am sure your likely answer is you want to be a happy person.
So, my friends, don't worry...be happy as you still have the time to read this blog...reflect that many unhappy people may not have the priviledge to read this blog. Be a channel of happiness bringing joy to others...though the road is tough, not smooth but I believe the seeds of happiness that you are going to spread will bring peace and harmony to many and they will appreciate your love !

The Roar of the Jungle

2008-06-22T20:29:00.005+08:00

Joe, I am glad that you are missing me although I have thought only pretty lads will miss me.

Well, I actually too engross with my company's biggest event for the agency last weekend and in fact I was hooked up since 3 weeks ago when you may still remember I have entertained two 'hot' ladies...from there on every weekend was a hectic day for me beside phone calls to request this and that...and I nearly have to dismantled my old Astro parabolic (at my old house) yesterday evening just because my big boss wish to watch Euro 2000 at 2.45am at our hottest resort (now)...Damai Puri...(hey...indeed a great resort, it was my first time since the new owner took over !) Luckily, we managed to convince the hotel to get one for us. Phew !

Not only staying awake into late nights, I have broke another personal record by going to and fro Damai 3x in 4 hours...as to lead my guest back to the hotel.

Last night, we had our Gala Dinner with the theme " Roar of the Jungle". Indeed a sweet virgin, hotty night with tantalizing moments as we drunk ourself into the wonderland. Few cried though they are drunk (I dun know why ??) and few kissed each others...probably too touch with the great moments that we had.

Believe or not...few had even undressed themself !!! and run to the beach to have a hot swim (I can now imagine and appreciate how the "Jaws" influence on young kids).

BTW, the photo I have taken is a bit blur because I was also high...when taking this photo :)...a traditional Iban dance by our two top agents. Memang ada gaya..leh..!

Beers, whiskey and Red wines are all over the place. Screaming voices and shouts of the jungle really make us released a lot of the pressure in our inner self...that is why probably some cried uncontrollably. hehehe...

Hey guess what....our Kuching ecomony was richer by about RM250,000.00 by the group of 120 visitors from West Malaysia and 5% was probably sucked by our Dalian/Sichuan/Hubei friends...oh yes...also Liaoning too !

Something Is Very Wrong Here

2008-06-12T15:58:00.003+08:00

After reading the front page of two leading newspaper locally, I am worried on why our PM alllow to split the salary payment to twice monthly and also allow government staff to do part time job to enable them to earn extras to cover the increasing cost ?

Am I hearing a confused leader or my mind is not open to progress ?

All these actions are to pacify the drastic impact of fuel hike and people's frustration.

Further, he also had quickly assured that no more increase of fuel hike this year....let's wait and see how far this gimmick will go ?

Selamat Ari Gawai

2008-06-10T12:29:00.002+08:00

Hope it is not too late to wish my Dayak friends a Happy Gawai in my own make outfit...yes ! Coming 14 June 2008, Sarawak will again host the National Gawai Celebration....and hope our PM will announce more fairness to Sarawak...

State of Preparedness

2008-06-08T18:22:00.003+08:00

Immediately, I shall be paying an extra RM10.00 for Rachel's busfare in view of the petrol increase (it is an awful increase, considering the distance from Chung Hua School No. 3 to Padungan Kindergarten is just less than 2km...if inclusive of 1 big round about).

Over in business, my CEO has already issued a statement on extra care in business travelling expenses, electricity comsumption and etc as if these factors are not controlled at hand, we may suffer average 20% increase to our operating structure. However, he has fell short of saying an adjustment of salary to curb the increase (hai...a, that would probably be the last or never action...till year end this year).

It seems that many transportation associations have openly issued statement to increase their charges with immediate effect and they are not concern about the Government's warning as they said..it is due to survival situation. This could be true, when business operators has been competing for pricing over the years and the increase of an important factor in their operation model has cause deep distortion intheir business. Well, we cannot deny, few may just want to take the opportunity to adjust their business structure although they have been profiting a lot.

I have read a news urging the Government to increase the royalty percentage to Sarawak, an oil producing state especially when our public transportation in the state are well underdeveloped. Instead of increasing the royalty percentage, Federal Government can increase the development fund commensurate with the contribution from our fertile state (I wonder who has the figure in hand ? whether we have already received the fair share from Federal Government...if we have, why we are still much behind other states like Penang, Selangor, Johor - non-oil producing state). How far is our Government particularly the State had planned for our future and what we can really see beyond 2014 (the year, Malaysia expected to become a net importer country)? We need to ask serius questions to our elected Government on their future thinking and from their answers, we will decide their future in 2011 !

Privately, this situation that we are in now...is sooner or later and the question is whether what is our own's the state of preparedness in embracing the future...not only having increase petrol price but the rippling effects of inflation and with growing kids soon we need an big education fund to support through their graduation ?

As Malaysian particularly Sarawakian, we need to contribute on our development thinking on how best to contribute to our country. Many bright brains may have chosen abroad to contribute but as to preserve our Malaysian existence, we (those still around slogging on) need to work in unison to ensure we have brighter future for our new Malaysian generation especially our kids and grandies.

Petrol Price Increase Again as Expected !

2008-06-06T09:35:00.002+08:00

Alamak ! It is a RM0.78 increase...the worst in Malaysia history and further it shall be on a monthly adjustment depeding on the actual world prices. Government advises that it shall only give RM0.30 subsidy per litre against the market price. So, my friends, hold on to your senses and prepare for the worst....it may just cross RM3.50 per litre in near future !

To cushion the shock, our good government has highlighted that we are still cheaper to Singapore ??? but higher than Indonesia ??? (remember Singapore is non-oil producing country). From the feedbacks, unfortunately, we are not earning the Singapore salary income structure ???

Government keep advising us to change our lifestyle to suit the increase of petrol and also expecting the rippling effect to cause other commodities orservices to increase.

What are the choices that we can have ? (beside voting for right party to manage the good governance)

Harden Muscles

2008-06-02T19:34:00.005+08:00

Can you believe... ? Today is the 3rd day, I have played squash in a row...over 12 games...a record for the last 5 years since the last time I have played so that often. Thanks to the long holiday since Saturday and also playing partners...Mr. Tee, Mr. Too & Mr Rich.

Though my muscles seems has tighten up and just nice for 120 minutes massage but then, I felt great ! Hooha !

Hey, tomorrow...I shall play again at 3.00pm and seriously, I hope to make this a habit of playing at least twice a week...not so much of weight issue but more towards mental detox...plus need to recall back my strokes... (aioy...can't believe myself thay I could not even win over young kids...Form 1 boy).

Mr. Tee has already preparing Bryan for his dream by sending him to squash clinics (he is only 8 years old) and he is encouraging me to do the same for Rachel. It is very tempting and I do really hope this could happen soon...at least that will also drive me to be discipline enough to meet my twice a week playing sessions(splitting myself with corporate duties..mind boggling). Well, accordingly to Andy (the coach), young chap will normally pick up the skills within 2 years. Through his tutelage, he has brought up few state players and they are also good in their academic (if one is concern about their child's education).

Hey, what do you think ?

*****

This is also my 98th post on this blog....yes ! I had started the blog since 17th March 2007 and it has attracted a traffic from 43 countries with 2267 entries (minus about 10% of my own surfing), hey...still have 2000 entries (in deep contrast...imagine Tun Dr. M's blog has attracted 1m traffic just within 1 month !..I am impressed !)...looking forward for the 100th ! soon...

Hard To Have Nice Dinner

2008-06-02T10:01:00.002+08:00

Yesterday, I had a hard time to find place for nice dinner as every good place seems to be mob by diners. Every year during this time, I know it is always hard to get a place especially if you want to have special dining experience, we cannot have the best place, the 2nd best is good enough.

So, I managed to get a table at the 2nd favourite stall at top spot seafood centre and it was at the very corner. To order, it took me 10 minutes as there are a lot of people cramping at the small place. Well, managed to have my order done but was nicely warned by the waitress that I need to be patience and may have to wait quite a long while. Looking at the sea of people, I said I could understand but try to be faster...and so, I quickly order side dishes from satay stall just to fill up my crounching stomach (grrrhhh sound).

True enough, my first dish (Butter prawn) was only out after 30 minutes and by the time the 5th dish it was already 90 minutes gone. By that time, my friends and I decided that we need to go and shall just have the last dish cancelled (manicai egg). As expected, when I try to pay the bill, it took me another 10 minutes waiting and further need to recall the same waitress to retrieve my order as there were just too many order sheets.

Hey, even the drinks operator have to collect our cups back when we order the 2nd glass as she nicely tell us that they are running out of cups.

Hmmm...The taukeh must be very happy that night....at least business increased by 100% as the really top stall was close for business due to Gawai Festive Holiday.

(You must be curious...with whom I was having this dinner....my wife was away on business trip and my kids are happily at my in-law's house...I am sure it is not too hard for you to find the answer in my blog...yeahahaha..)

West Malaysian Visitors

2008-05-27T22:11:00.002+08:00

Today, I have two lady visitors who specially flew down to survey the tourist attraction sites in Kuching. I was only to meet them at lunch as their programme has been carefully lined by the tour agent from the touch down at the airport and back to departure hall to KL the next day.

They are expert as they are entrusted to evaluate and report back to the committee of what is the best place for makan, play and visiting. It seems as local, I am ignorant to their questions as probably I am not particular of the places of tourist locally. Lunch at Mango Tree (my 3rd time I think) is superb as of course no. 1, it is free and secondly they presented grand dishes (don't know how much).

To be host to 2 person is easy but when to a group of 100 people (yup..we are going to have 110 people coming...pumping in RM200k into Kuching economy), it really needs expert to carefully plan out the programme, if not...there will be chaotic situation. When they asked me about..the best place for laksa..my answer would be at kopi hui but definitely it cannot cater more than 20 people at one time...so, I have to agree with them to go for Mdm Tang's place, which could cater at least 50 people at one time and needed to spread over to neighbouring food cafe.

For seafood dinner...we can have it at carpark but need to book half of the place as normally it is pack with customers at evening.

For spa, it is also headache as limited places especially when quality is a must.

Frankly, in my observation, tourism quality in Kuching is still lagging behind other cities in Malaysia although our State government has done a lot to it but still when comparing to the information centre and places of attractions, we are still much behind, dont you think so ? or we are just being ignorant local.

Coming back to my visitors, I am supposed to join them tasting food at ABC but I could not make it as I need to visit a newly baptised brother as my Legion's weekly assignment. Tomorrow, they will be at Damai Puri surveying the latest offer by the new management. I have not been there since the last old management by Holiday Inn. Market feedback is very good and hot with new spa facililty and so forth....

Mmm..will keep all posted when I am there soon !

Increasing Cost of Dining Out

2008-05-26T10:39:00.004+08:00

Do you realise the cost of eating out is getting more expensive ? Yes...definitely.

My usual "kaya balls" favourites is now costing extra 20 cents. Kampua is now all across RM2.50 per plate. Fried mee is at RM3.50.

Yesterday, I bought 2 packets of 1 litre soya bean drinks from Ta Kiong Emporium at The Spring, Kuching. The price is cheap at only RM1.80 per packet as I compared to my usual kopitiam drink (Teh-C peng) which costs RM1.60, if 5 layers special it will be RM2.00. In term of quantity ratio is 4 soya bean to 1 teh-C peng.

Mathematically, I am spending RM4.80 for usual drink per day...and for a 30 days period, I have to pay RM144.00 and plus 50% for treating friends..I would need to fork up RM216.00 just for drinks. So, if I drink at home more often, I could save RM1.15 per glass and RM103.50 per month !

Recently, I read an article in the Strait Times (of course many of you didn't read as it is a main stream media...) whereby it said about cutting down eating out which will definitely cut down our expenses in the light of fuel rising costs. It is very true as eating at home definitely is cheaper as when we buy and cook at home, we have already cut down 30% profit taking by the food operators. In addition, we will be able to ensure quality and quantity at our will.

Hey, just the last weekend alone, I have been spending about RM30 per dining out with my family of four...that will consitute to RM150 (as we do not have lunch on Sunday). If eating in, I could have save at least RM45.00 and a month, I will save RM180.00 just for the weekends.

"Sikit sikit lama lama jadi bukit"...rightly will give us the motivation of such savings. One year will lead to RM2,160.00 and ten years...it is RM21,600.00. Mind us, this is just a linear saving of the monetary value. If we work it out on exponentially...the amount is huge !

If we planned our eating places and take note of the prices, I am sure we will be able to at least save extra for another dining out...

However, if your earnings is more than "segunung tinggi"...forget about what I shared just now...it does not matter at all ! Hhehehe

A Very Hot Week

2008-05-15T20:28:00.004+08:00

After weeks of receiving afternoon rains, it has been dry week since Monday. It is very hot out in the open, the sky is very clear and though I do not measure it with a termometer, I believe it is around 33-34 degree C. Staying in the office is a real luxury, having to enjoy the cooling airconditioning but for my nature of work, I have to move around even if it is melting outside.

I was hoping it very much to rain this afternoon as I would not need to water my newly planted pearl grass costing RM2,500.00 (at least not as much as somebody's German shepherd...but it is fluke). But it didn't, so I have to water them just now in the dark. I had overheard in the cafe that the haze is coming back..very soon but I do not have the feel,...may be it will but hopefully it will not be like the one we had in 1997/98.

Hey, I do noticed that my car porch has a lot of dust though I just wash it last Sunday afternoon (exceptionally lot)...a sign of hazy days ahead ?...

I have moved my house...

2008-05-08T20:17:00.004+08:00

Till a week ago, I am still very much into putting the last touch to my new haven but now I am sitting in my dining hall putting up this blog...what a busy task as I believe all would agree especially when I have stayed in my previous house for six years with a wife and 2 kids. Still, I have 15-20% of my home contents still laying at the "old" house.

Moving, carrying, transporting, rearrangement had been the default mode for the last 7 days especially the first 3 days. The pain in my both legs is much more than after playing a grueling 5 sets of squash (during younger days of course)...Sleeping is a luxury for the past 7 days as I have been waking up at 5.30 a.m eversince 1st May.

Coming to this new neighbourhood, about 15km from city centre...around the same distance as per my previous house except the later is in the West/South of Kuching and the former is at East/South. However, the time taken to travel from my new home to office will take about 25 minutes, longer by slightly 5 minutes as it is quite jam in the early hours around 6.30-8 am. After 8am, it will only take 15 minutes.

Why this neighbourhood ?... the main reason is to be closer with my relatives...as my brother is just about 3 km away and my sister-in-law is only a lane (500m away) in the same negihbourhood (Heroes is staying just across the river, before the bridge...easier to get lift to airport if needed..:) ) Or may be just want to upgrade to a Semi-D from a terrace corner...

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Hey...as my house is located in Kota Samarahan, near border to Kuching City...so my MP now is Datuk Seri Sulaiman, son of CM instead of Datuk Yong Khoon Seng, both of BN. Need to change my polling address leh...

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House warming soon ? A question need to be thoroughly thought before answering. However, I will have my legion brothers/sisters to my house for our May Rosary and probably also inviting my parish priest to do the house blessing together sometime this month.

Hey...Still recall that someone reminded me about inviting CM & S to attend...yes, it would wonderful if they can be present...as his son is my MP now...:)

Embracing Change

2008-05-08T07:57:00.001+08:00

How far you are ready for change ? Change is inevitable ! and every moment is different unless we stop thinking or breathing but then life will still go on...

My friend, the sooner we embrace change for good...we shall be able to life more meaningfully in this life. Amen.

Hoi...Wrong Type of Lemon

2008-04-14T23:51:00.004+08:00

No wonder, I didn't get my desired result..lah ! It's all because I had sucked the wrong type of lemon for the past 2 months. When consulted my colleagues over the matter, she gave me the sample of the real type...as per the one oval look and not the two roundish type...

The oval look is the real local lemon...and tested a slight alkaline as advised by my experience colleague. The other one that I sucked is acidic...provide not the right effects..

So, I will try this one again for the next 3 weeks and by 8/5/2008, I will publish my achievement....(silently...aiming for 8kg reduction in 3 weeks..sshhh !). Wish me luck !

Watch and Control Your Petrol Consumption

2008-04-11T07:52:00.004+08:00

I have spent RM443.04 on petrol for my Matrix 1.6 Auto for the month of March and it exceeded my usual estimation of RM300.00. This is probably due to the fact that I do not track exactly by the amount but rather by the number of days since the last pumping of petrol @ 5-6 days.

Few days ago, when I chatted with my customers, they said it is normal as they usually spent RM500 average a month for their 2.0l vehicles. Though I have not being really concern on such spending on petrol since the first day I own a car, but with more responsibilities ahead of me, it is a serious wake up call as I go through my credit card statement, I must scrutinise further to ensure every drop of petrol is well burn.

So, if this is going to be a monthly affair, it is going to be tough ! Those hundred saved can be channelled to my children education funds ! or make my dream comes faster, isn't not ?

With the early warning of high consumption from my friends who had Matrix, I have actually already add special Nano addictives to the petrol which is believed to be able to save my petrol consumption by as much as 23%. I believe it had done so but may be due to my concentration to sales activities lately plus heavy travelling to my new house every afternoon during lunch time, the figure shoot up...

Rumour is great that there will be another increase in the petrol soon...but the rice will increase first ? Well, I can stop eating rice as to slim down but my Matrix must consume petrol to bring me and family around....so with every part/little increase here and there, the total sum of the number will make our financial at real stretch and give pressure to ourself.

Just be wary...I am reminding myself...and also all of you that consume petrol !

Special Function of Mobile Phone

2008-04-07T18:59:00.002+08:00

Just got a interesting email from a friend and I thought it is worthwhile to share with all;

4 THINGS YOU PROBABLY NEVER KNEW YOUR MOBILE PHONE COULD DO

There are a few things that can be done in times of grave emergencies. Your mobile phone can actually be a life saver or an emergency tool for survival. Check out the things that you can do with it:

FIRST : EmergencyThe Emergency Number worldwide for Mobile is 112.
If you find yourself out of the coverage area of your mobile; network and there is an emergency, dial 112 and the mobile will search any existing network to establish the emergency number for you, and interestingly this number 112 can be dialed even if the keypad is locked. Try it out.

SECOND : Have you locked your keys in the car?
Does your car have remote keyless entry? This may come in handy someday. Good reason to own a cell phone: If you lock your keys in the car and the spare keys are at home, call someone at home on their mobile phone from your cell phone. Hold your cell phone about a foot from your car door and have the person at your home press the unlock button, holding it near the mobile phone on their end. Your car will unlock. Saves someone from having todrive your keys to you. Distance is no object. You could be hundreds of miles away, and if you can reach someone who has the other "remote" for your car, you can unlock the doors (or the trunk).
Editor's Note: It works fine! We tried it out and it unlocked our car over a mobile phone!"

THIRD : Hidden Battery PowerImagine your mobile battery is very low.
To activate, press the keys *3370# Your mobile will restart with this reserve and the instrument will show a 50% increase in battery. This reserve will get charged when you charge your mobile next time.

FOURTH : How to disable a STOLEN mobile phone?
To check your Mobile phone's serial number, key in the following digits on your phone: * # 0 6 # A 15 digit code will appear on the screen. This number is unique to your handset. Write it down and keep it somewhere safe. When your phone get stolen, you can phone your service provider and give them this code. They will then be able to block your handset so even if the thief changes the SIM card, your phone will be totally useless. You probably won't get your phone back, but at least you know that whoever stole it can't use/sell it either. If everybody does this, there would be no point in people stealing mobile phones.

T.G.I Friday's

2008-04-04T13:07:00.004+08:00

T.G.I. Friday stands for Thank God It's Friday.

My first visit to this nice cosy restaurant cum cafe was way back in 1995 (the building in the photo is somewhere else), the first month when I started working in Jalan Raja Chulan, KL as a management trainee. I do not really know or appreciate why the owner called themself T.G.I and not until now I began to appreciate Friday's mood...

Why ? because tonight is a Friday night and I can stay up late as tomorrow is a holiday...so I can still wake up early and can take afternoon nap as I like...don't you agree ? After slog for 5 days, we deserve a good break, is it not ? A break away from the office discipline...

Today is the time to let loose a bit to reflect the whole week's performance and recollection of those productivity time. Today is also the time to chart the next week's programme with team members.

Well, may be it is all in our mind,...just because tomorrow, we do not need to clock in office...that is why we are loosen up...hehehe...then if we could control our mindset, we can have everyday a Friday, everyday is a great day ! right ?...

In KL, we will have Happy Friday whereby we will gang up to have bars hopping till we drop...what a sweet time...having those boostering drinks as we sing and get drunk in arms...

Cheers !

9th Marriage Registration Anniversary

2008-04-02T13:13:00.004+08:00

We remembered our 9th Official Marriage Anniversary yesterday with SMSes (cheap...ya..just RM0.12 x 2..hehehe).

Official means registered with the government whilst our registration with God is on 29th May.

Frankly, I am more incline to celebrate the solemnise date rather that the April Fool...as it is more meaningful although officially in the eyes of the government we are legal partners since 1st April. With the blessing and full ceremeony plus dinner...it is a wonderful experience, a declaration to our relatives and friends where everyone will send in their best wishes...we are king and queen for the day !

In fact, in May that particular year, I still remember two other friends (Mr. Tee and Stephen C.) also ended their bachelorhood. Mr. Tee reminded to go for 10th Anniversary big do (he proposed during our last kopi-talk).

I think so, may be go for another honeymoon in Europe (10 days) as my first one was Gold Coast, Australia (4 nights/5 days). This year, we will not go far except for KL/Genting trip in May 2008, as need to conserve M-power for house renovations.

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Appreciation to reflect on this life partnership is crucial and needed for long term. In our Catholic Church, we have programme for marriage renewal blessing for spouses to renew their vows. It is to remind us on the vow that we took and announce it to all..."in sickness and in health, in poor and in wealth, we will remain united to the last day"

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But before the 10th...I must first prepare well for the 9th Anniversary's gift/celebration...(as my few seniors had warned me over the years...don't play-play with the home minister (now cracking my head...)).

Politics

2008-03-29T19:26:00.004+08:00

I am interested to learn the actual meaning of 'politics' as this term is widely used and corporate management have actually reminded employee not to play politics among colleagues. So, I refer to wikipedia;

Politics is the process by which groups of people make decisions. The term is generally applied to behavior within civil governments, but politics has been observed in all human group interactions, including corporate, academic, and religious institutions.

Politics consists of "social relations involving authority or power" and refers to the regulation of a political unit, and to the methods and tactics used to formulate and apply policy.

Political science (also political studies) is the study of political behavior and examines the acquisition and application of power. Related areas of study include political philosophy, which seeks a rationale for politics and an ethic of public behavior, and public administration, which examines the practices of governance.

Hmm...it is purely just a process of making decision by a group of people in consensus. If it is just a methodology, then why in corporate management or among people, people are discouraged from playing politics ?

Politics itself is just a method or process in making decision and it did not mention about its understanding or belief . Corporate management is actually more concern about the way belief or influence are worked out certain individual or group by to lead or change or unite the bigger group to against the management's belief, cultures and values.

So, the corporate management has also been playing politics to ensure the whole team stay united to the same culture, belief and values. Hence, the end in mind of the leaders is utmost important.

Then we need to know what sort of politics (way of making decision) are practised by various group when approaching a challenges, issues, opportunities or problem. Once we are cleared, we will be able to to pick our choice.

More confused ? I think so and I believe many others are also confused. Many may be lead to support due to belief that they shall gain benefits from the strong association of one group of same political mind. These people just do not know that actual values of politics and they would not care for the larger group of society other than their own preferences.

Sincerely, how many are actually educated to know what is politics ? other than listen from hearsay, newspaper, coffeeshops...any of us study this topic like we are trained doctors, engineers, lawyers etc ? Other thans those political study graduates and handful of self learned leaders, most people, I mean majority just do not know what is politics all about.

May be we could say...politics is a logic or common sense...may be it is true but still if most people do not have common sense as what we have experienced in other areas, we do find a lot of people just do not have the common knowledge.

Where am I getting to ?...I am just trying to share that if more people are educated just like how we were taught to read ABC and to evaluate facts...may be the maturity of politics will be there and elected government will better be real for their jobs....(political leaders must work harder to explain to the people...this one way how the majority start learning...)

It is just my 5cents thoughts .....(inset photo is Aristotle)